Tandy Newton

Doesn't list kissing - whats the point?

I know its a persons right to to be who they are sexually. But, my concern is, there seems to be a glut of tops on RM most recently. You can go through pages upon pages and you will see the rare verse top. I have even seen guys who were previously verse now exclusively Tops. Yes, I am a top only, but I just can’t picture myself giving away Benjamins just to get on all fours. A dildo and some free porn would be more cost effective. Why I say this too, those who are saying they are top only, come across as potentially the the bare minimum type: no actual interaction with the client, probably texting his next bottom client while screwing you.

He use to be Ian in Seattle: http://daddysreviews.com/venue/usa/washington Also went by the name ScruffyMuscle previously. Was doing bondage videos under the name ‘Om-Nom’ for a guy back in Portland named RopeTrainKeep. Thought he got out of the escort world based on the last time I saw him online he was in a relationship with some guy in LA. Still have a crush on him; he was gonna be my first.

I thought I could hold out, but after 8 months, I'm going crazy. I thought the occasional jerk off could help, but I'm desperate for body contact, tongue in my mouth, a connection with someone, even though short. If I could choose, I would not be doing this, but I've given up. Yes, I have all right to be rebuked and yes, I will or could regret it.

Anybody have any details? https://rent.men/Gianni_Luka I like his face and his body, kinda mix of Patrick Dempsey and Bay Area startup program manager.

This forum is a treasure, now in PNW, but not even gonna ask to see his private photos.

Also, I think a lot of those entertainers who do find success on the platform built their following on traditional social media platforms like Twitter, Instagram, push their content hard there then extrapolate that into building their success. So, yes, you need to have your head squared on likely trusted colleagues helping you in some way to really have a vision of what you are trying to achieve.

No, its just the quality will go down, as what you might desire as a hot guy will become much harder to get. If and when they do show up on RM is when they are no longer the hot thing on social media or their exclusive high clientele drops them (which is usually fast) and bad money management. So, when they have basically aged out of platforms like Twitter, OF and JFF, then you will see them sending you messages on RM. Irony, when that happens, you likely have no interest in them. The savvy person here should play both fields, use both social media and RM escorting to really have multiple options. But, when you are young, muscular and handsome, you really don't care.

That's the problem, even those who aren't going into the traditional porn industry are going exclusive to OnlyFans and Just for Fans. Take Morgxn Thicke for example, he has exclusively been on OF and JF. He's a sweet guy and even reached out to him about meeting and he said, if he's in the area he will. But, when you look at who is doing videos with, they are desirable hot guys that I would also love to hire. So, again, this is just the beginning of a huge change ahead. When I moved to the PNW in 2018, there were a lot of hot guys on RM. But going into 2019, something dramatically changed. I remembered when I showed interest in this guy, Ian, and reached out to him through Friendboy Pro; he seemed receptive at first. Then he canceled at the last minute because he thought something was off. One day, I'm scrolling through Twitter and guess who I came across tied up bondage by some guy in Portland being promoted on their Only Fans page? The same guy. Also, going back to the main point here, there are still a lot of guys, but no necessarily the quality and quantity some of us are looking for. New York, Miami, SF; sometimes its a waste of time going past the first 2 pages, usually the best float to the top. But its very small in comparison to just 2 to 3 years ago.

He said during the video, are gonna help bring me over 1,000? I don’t think he’s really gonna do that just for $20

Remember OnlyFans is a phenomenon that started in the last 5 years. RM has been around longer, but I’m sure before RM there were ads in back pages too. Those eventually got succeeded. An escort I met last constantly was pushing me to go check out his OF for more exclusive content. I certainly agree, this won’t replace body contact. But does the escort care and do the new generation of target users who grew up only knowing the iPhone, iPad care? Nope! That is the problem, within 10 to 20 years, this might not actually exist. If it still does, it will shift the power balance. Instead, escorts will choose who they want as clients and not the other way around.

Remember, these guys are doing multiple platforms. I just came across this geeky looking handsome JFK Jr clone. He spent 36 mins in the comfort of his own home making over 1,000 dollars in tips jerking off and thanking his followers on Chaturbate. https://www.myvidster.com/video/223464816/Dcrocket88_Verbal_Hairy_Guy_Shoots_A_Big_Load_With_A_Hot_Moan Yes, not everybody on Just for Fans and Only Fans are gonna be successful, just as not everyone who does porn or escorts is gonna be successful. But it sure is successful enough that almost all porn actors and even escorts I have hired do it and primarily promote it. Before that, most porn actors supplemented income through escorting. The key is, if you look good; like that Venezuelan or the guy I linked from Chaturbate, you could easily make decent six figures out of it. If this guy only does 10 shows a month and makes over 1,200 dollars, thats 12,000 per month, amounting to 144,000 per year. If you go more conservative, you could easily see how easily 100,000 could be made. Even if you have to report income, its a nice chunk of change left over just for 36 mins of work, maybe a few times per week. You are not not at the mercy of a director telling you what angle, deliver the money shot, do the same scene for hours, more privacy (relatively) and most importantly, that ‘ugly’ client is not touching you. Further motivating factors: you are your own boss, less stress, buy good food, pay for $10 per month Planet Fitness membership or home gym. If you are smart on top of it, you are investing your savings, earning compound interest on top of it. So, it goes back to my point about, good looking escorts, who once would brave it to do escorting, don’t necessarily need it anymore because of the new opportunities to earn an income thats within their control. A lot of them are using it as leverage against the porn studios and the industry too. Its just like other industries: Uber upended taxis, the iPhone replaces so many things in our lives.

A guy I follow on Twitter who is from Venezuela posted his income for the year back in December thanking his fans for their support, it was something like 86,000 in earnings.

I was saying the same thing about Seattle the other day, but I would take exception to New York. In fact, thats where I plan to visit next summer to get some satisfaction. There are pages upon pages of full packaged handsome fit looking men. But there are also pages of men that I have no desire in either, even some with beautiful bodies. Coronavirus has certainly made things harder on top of the changing landscape of adult entertainment. When you can easily make $100,000 a year doing Only Fans and supplement that with a few regular high end clients who are closer to home, RM is likely a fading, no option platform for many of these guys. I also believe Instagram has become a new avenue for hiring by a certain clientele. Word of mouth is also eliminating the need to go through the rigorous process of building up reputation on RM. Also, the what are considered to be hot guys are becoming selective. They are in a position to pick and choose who they want as their clients. Not just the rich, old, white guy on Park Avenue. They want clients that look them, so, maybe a professional who earns a good income, single, goes to the gym, likely works at Facebook, Apple or Google; maybe even goes to same gym. What we are left with, are basically those who have been in the industry long enough to see no other options, just like doing it or obvious under the influence of something types. I went on Seattle Mintboys and it was an eye opener of how desperate some people are. And its not just here, its across the US. With the economic meltdown, more guys who you would never consider for a second are gonna be escorting, while the ones you truly desire are leaving or more strategic environments. This not the end of escorting, but certainly will breath a new very picky generation of escorts.

Ok, after reading this, now I know why he is on the back pages of the Las Vegas RM page. 1 grand? He's pretty...pretty unbelievable!

I guess its his mature daddy looks, but for 38, he looks like 48 going 52.

I am thinking of trying this guy, have read some of the forum reviews. There is something alluring about him, not an immediate choice, but looking like the best option in the short term. https://rent.men/Meatball_Mike

When he just came out, I would have dropped everything for him, but its a good thing nothing happened. He doesn't even look like his pictures anymore.

Looks like he might be in Seattle in August. This might be my only opportunity to have some connection. What does this mean though? COVID safe - I have the antibodies

I agree, out of state seems to be the only options for getting a good experience. For instance, this guy from Vancouver was a great experience. Absolutely handsome and just so much fun to be with it. The reason why I was able to get him, he was on his way to Portland. It was serendipitous because I saw him a Treasure Island just a couple of days before. https://rent.men/HamedRaidd

Miami does have some nice ones and Canada is always cheaper compared to the US. Maybe I should make Canada be my first choice. I have given up on Seattle, but I am trying to lure this guy here. He visited before and I remember trying to setup a meeting over email, but I didn’t have a clue what I was doing. https://rent.men/Camwright

Its been eight months since I’ve had some companionship here in the PNW. Its not just the virus that has triggered this absence of acquired love, but major personal life changes too, like losing a job; starting a new one and making it my priority; fall out with previous room mate; moving into a shared house with little to no privacy and then there is the pandemic. I tried going back on the apps especially the web based one called Sniffies, it has the prickle nature of hookups, everyone is just beating around the bush and flashing their pricks and holes. Even before the virus struck, hookup apps kind of became a dead end for me in finding easy partners. In some ways, I committed to myself to every now and then, find a partner on RM to scratch that itch. I wasn’t expecting to do this as a regular thing like I did in the past; and porn would make up for some of it. But I have to say, after 8 months, even RM has not really lived up to expectation. Yes, there are guys on RM in Seattle; some of them suspect, since their profiles appear to be in multiple locatiions at the same time. Its that I can’t make desireable connection with the guys I’m seeing. At the end of the day, this boils down to lust. In truth, there is no lust for any of the guys advertising here in Seattle. When I take a look at other areas such as NY, SF, LA, FL, Chicago, or outside the US, (really some great ones in Toronto and Montreal) there is such an abundance of the guys I lust for. Which makes me wonder, some of these states and cities have a high infection rate, yet the guys seem to stay put and keep advertising. So, the question I have to ask is, what has happened to Seattle, why aren’t quality guys visiting? And I have noticed for quite some time even before the pandemic, the most desireable guys never made much effort to visit either. When I moved here in 2018, there certainly was an abundance, but I didn’t have a clue how to initiate this, the fear of it and some shame too. So, I did miss out on a golden era it seems. My long term plan is to do a two week vacation in NY hopefully summer 2021. Hopefully by then we will have a vaccine. Its gonna be expensive, but its not like I’m planning to make this a regular thing anyway. Of course, I might be too picky, but when you are parting with funds, I think you have all right to be. Thoughts?

Now goes by Fredericky - seriously when the vaccine is ready and I get some vacation time, I am going straight to NY To meet him.

My planned meet up cancelled on me without any notice. I felt bad, but I took it into perspective and maybe I dodged a bullet. At least my 300 will go to something more useful this week.

Looks he is either a ghost or a fraud. Agreed to meet in the afternoon this weekend, but he’s back in his home turf without even leaving a message. Oh well, maybe its for the best, back to porn hub and the good old reliable fleshlight.