Found it. Here's the email communication from Jbutler (or Jason) from Philadelphia 2009. I answered a M4M ad he posted on craigslists. I remember thinking how mindless and dumb he was using an email address that displayed his real name.
From there, It was easy to match his name to his Facebook account.
I redacted the names and emails before posting here.
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From: "realname dedacted" <snakey74@xxxxx.com>
Subject: RE: Make Love to me, man on man - 33 (Old City)
To: email-redacted@xxxxx.com
Date: Sunday, July 12, 2009, 10:51 AM
go back to china you damn g**k
From: ct <email-redacted@xxxxx.com>
Subject: RE: Make Love to me, man on man - 33 (Old City)
To: "realname dedacted" <snakey74@xxxxx.com>
Date: Sunday, July 12, 2009, 10:43 AM
Wow, you have better be careful of who you insult on the internet!
From: "realname dedacted" <snakey74@xxxxx.com>
Subject: RE: Make Love to me, man on man - 33 (Old City)
To: email-redacted@xxxxx.com
Date: Saturday, July 11, 2009, 11:57 PM
you are stupid.
From: ct <email-redacted@xxxxx.com>
Subject: RE: Make Love to me, man on man - 33 (Old City)
To: "realname dedacted" <snakey74@xxxxx.com>
Date: Saturday, July 11, 2009, 11:53 PM
Where are u located? Into?
From: "Philip Lawther" <snakey74@xxxxx.com>
Subject: RE: Make Love to me, man on man - 33 (Old City)
To: email-redacted@xxxxx.com
Date: Saturday, July 11, 2009, 11:28 PM
you look very nice
Date: Sat, 11 Jul 2009 20:24:14 -0700
From: email-redacted@xxxxx.com
Subject: Make Love to me, man on man - 33 (Old City)
To: pers-sfhwb-12655X6155@craigslist.org
Hey there - my stats below
Get back if interested!
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I remembered the pics he posted on craigslist were the same from his rentboy ad.
http://www.menn2malemassage.com/media//img/profiles/new_bod_2.jpg