Found it. Here's the email communication from Jbutler (or Jason) from Philadelphia 2009. I answered a M4M ad he posted on craigslists. I remember thinking how mindless and dumb he was using an email address that displayed his real name. 
From there, It was easy to match his name to his Facebook account. 
I redacted the names and emails before posting here. 
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From: "realname dedacted" <
[email protected]> 
Subject: RE: Make Love to me, man on man - 33 (Old City) 
To: 
[email protected] 
Date: Sunday, July 12, 2009, 10:51 AM   
go back to china you damn g**k   
From: ct <
[email protected]> 
Subject: RE: Make Love to me, man on man - 33 (Old City) 
To: "realname dedacted" <
[email protected]> 
Date: Sunday, July 12, 2009, 10:43 AM   
Wow, you have better be careful of who you insult on the internet!   
From: "realname dedacted" <
[email protected]> 
Subject: RE: Make Love to me, man on man - 33 (Old City) 
To: 
[email protected] 
Date: Saturday, July 11, 2009, 11:57 PM   
you are stupid.   
From: ct <
[email protected]> 
Subject: RE: Make Love to me, man on man - 33 (Old City) 
To: "realname dedacted" <
[email protected]> 
Date: Saturday, July 11, 2009, 11:53 PM   
Where are u located? Into?   
From: "Philip Lawther" <
[email protected]> 
Subject: RE: Make Love to me, man on man - 33 (Old City) 
To: 
[email protected] 
Date: Saturday, July 11, 2009, 11:28 PM   
you look very nice    
Date: Sat, 11 Jul 2009 20:24:14 -0700 
From: 
[email protected] 
Subject: Make Love to me, man on man - 33 (Old City) 
To: 
[email protected]   
Hey there - my stats below 
Get back if interested!   
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I remembered the pics he posted on craigslist were the same from his rentboy ad.   
http://www.menn2malemassage.com/media//img/profiles/new_bod_2.jpg