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I don't personally care about price, this is what I'm looking for. Only prompting from the client (me) being them reading the situation and 'taking charge.'
 
Also, for the inexperienced (me), massage is gateway intimate contact. If I knew how to 'shop' better or read advertisements better, this would make my life easier.
 
edit: I'd rather overpay for a massage then pay for a massage then be presented with a "pay me X for Y" -- I'd rather have my expensive massage fee cover it up front.

I don't personally care about price, this is what I'm looking for. Only prompting from the client (me) being them reading the situation and 'taking charge.'
 
Also, for the inexperienced (me), massage is gateway intimate contact. If I knew how to 'shop' better or read advertisements better, this would make my life easier.
 
edit: I'd rather overpay for a massage then pay for a massage then be presented with a "pay me X for Y" -- I'd rather have my expensive massage fee cover it up front.

I love providers that do a massage that turns into a sex. That's why I particularly like https://jamesstevensde.squarespace.com and met with him while he was in Denver. He's very upfront with what he does and articulates it very well in his writing. And his 90 minute session accommodates that perfectly. Personally, I am happy to pay slightly more for a longer session if it comes with both a relaxing massage and some wonderful intimate time with a sexy dude. It helps that James knows what he is doing in both regards, but it's surprising that more who do don't advertise themselves in that way.

Maybe. But my point is that there are legitimate, skilled masseurs who may cross over into escort territory without any prompting from their client. As mentioned, I can’t say if they do this all the time; in my experiences it has seemed pretty spontaneous, with the exception of one masseur who quoted me a very steep price for *just* a massage, but it turned into an experience I would’ve expected with an escort.