I've been hiring for 18+ years, and have met some really fine men. I sometimes see someone first time overnight, if I know their reputation and reviews, like Mike Gaite, Matt Stevens, Adam Russo, Allen Silver. I'm a pretty good companion and feed and house my guys well. Typical overnight for me is meeting up at 3-4, play, nice dinner +/- show or music, play, sleep, sometimes play in AM. That part is something not everyone gets into. Communication is key. I generally let new people know that I'm affectionate and into a BFE, and that keys in for most people. If two days, the second day is most fun, with shopping, museum, and just hanging out together.