However you want him to be. I have always wondered just what guys mean when they advertise that they are dominant tops. He also does. I asked him what he meant by "dominant top." And he explained that it was primarily verbal - lot's of aggressive dirty talk, plus very assertive physically - kind of using you, demeaning you. I said "let's do that, I think I can handle it." He's Latin and he has an almost undetectable accent. When he goes dominant top he cuts loose and really plays up his accent. I felt like I had accidentally strayed into the wrong part of town and that he was going to get a piece of me before he let me go. I liked it a lot. He also says in his ad that he can be affectionate and romantic if that's what you want. I can imagine him as a passionate Latin lover treating you as though you're the only man in the world.