The other night I saw college aged escort out studying alone in a coffee shop. I was walking by and went into say a brief hello. I think it made him uncomfortable since he messaged me later asking my to keep our encounters private(I just said hello-how was school, etc--nothing about our encounters). He felt self conscious that the whole coffee shop had seen us talking briefly and he studies there often. This is someone who is a great guy but also not shy about posting provocative pics on his instagram and only fans. I apologized and said I would not greet him again out in the community.
I realize all individuals are different but I know other escorts that would be unhappy if I ran into them in a bar and didn't say hello (and maybe buy them a drink).
Is there an unwritten etiquette that should be followed?
I have to say that as a client I felt a little put off that an escort would be horrified that an older guy said a brief hello in a coffee shop but I understand escorts are also dealing with their own issues.