Balthazar

I think multiple things can be true at the same time. I, for example, enjoy extras, but I also like a competent massage. It has been my experience that the massage portion of bed massages is frequently mediocre (from a technical perspective) and functions as foreplay for whatever happens once you flip over. That's a valid experience but often disappointing if you value massages. Ultimately, if my primary goal were to roll around on a bed with a guy, I would hire an escort. Having multiple options available allows the provider to adapt to their clients, as we all have different wants and expectations. Furthermore, for me, there is a bit of a thrill in not knowing exactly where an erotic/sensual massage will go. Starting on a table facilitates that anticipation. 

I mostly hire massuers and enjoy a mix of regulars and new guys. I have found, however, that lately I've been leaning more towards exploration. I will have an excellent experience with someone and then try someone new instead of hiring him again. There are multiple local guys I'd like to see again, despite not making an effort to do so. I also frequently focus on traveling providers.