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Balthazar

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  1. I rarely get massages in spas. When I have, however, they have been strictly therapeutic. Similarly to what was previously mentioned, the vast majority of independent masseurs I have hired didn't drape. Some offered, and I declined. I don't remember the last time I was draped. The majority of these masseurs also provided a sensual/erotic experience without me asking. I've hired guys with masseurfinder ads that focused on their training and professionalism and included pics of them in scrubs who I assumed would be strictly therapeutic but ended up being quite interactive. I've also hired guys who had ads that I believed hinted at extras (e.g., showing off body in pics, checking "sensual" on rentmasseur) but provided none. I just go with the flow and, at a minimum, hope for a good massage. Most M4M masseurs know that many, if not most, of their male clients would welcome an HE. If the masseur offers no evidence that extras are an option, I tend to not try to test his boundaries. I recognize, however, that I might have missed some opportunities with this approach.
  2. I've seen Marcus. The massage itself was reasonable, maybe better, but it was difficult for me to relax and appreciate the touch because he was talking so much. He was hot, and the massage was strictly therapeutic (no MT, HE, etc). I could see myself potentially repeating if he talked less. Please note that I didn't communicate this to him. For all I know, he might have politely accommodated.
  3. That's awesome. I'm mostly concerned about letting the provider know that I'm Black. That way he can decide whether or not he is willing and able to perform, despite any preferences he might have. I can have lackluster experiences for free ... hahaha. If the provider doesn't want to work with Black guys, I don't want to hire him either. Please note that I'm not trying to start a discussion about whether or not such preferences are racist. I'm just trying to approach hiring in a way that sets me up for success. Some providers don't possess the willingness and skills to successfully engage with certain client presentations. I expect the provider to have enough insight to decline seeing me if he believes we're not a match.
  4. I do share accurate stats with escorts. I'm trying to give them an opportunity to decline. I don't want to hire someone who finds me so unappealing that they can't provide the experience I'm looking for. I don't share stats with masseurs, however.
  5. I scheduled an outcall appointment with him. He neither showed up nor responded to my text/call. I can't speak to the quality of his massage, but I wish he had been more professional.
  6. It has been several years, but I had a great time with RomanLA. https://rent.men/RomanLA#sponsor
  7. I recently saw them. Texting was fine, but communicating with them in person was somewhat challenging due to limited English. The massage portion was okay but brief. I likely wouldn't repeat, but I might recommend them based on the extras. In other words, if you find them attractive and are more interested in the "erotic" than the "massage," you might be a match.
  8. I saw him last summer. He was friendly, professional, and had a dedicated massage space. The massage was good, and I would see him again. I also appreciate that you can schedule online. Book a massage with Two Hands and a Table | Addison TX 75001 WWW.MASSAGEBOOK.COM Two Hands and a Table massage services in Addison, TX. Feeling stressed? It's time to lie down and...
  9. Dany: Overall, I had a positive experience, and the massage was solid. He wasn't particularly warm, but he wasn't unfriendly or unpleasant. Kade: I saw him for an outcall. The massage was good and strictly therapeutic. I enjoyed his company and conversing with him. Chris: It sounds like my experience was similar to what @questbeardescribed. He was also very friendly. Watussi (Andres): As @Gymdal75219 implied, the pressure was a bit low. I also found his routine to be a bit repetitive. Overall, it was okay, however. Of these masseurs, I would be least likely to return to him.
  10. I got a lot of solid massages in 2023, but Cesaar and Ozne stand out. Cesaar provided the balance of technical skill and sensuality I look for in an M4M massage. Cesaar on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Most of the bed massages I've gotten have been mediocre. Ozne, however, used the bed to provide an engaging, intimate experience. I also enjoyed his French accent. Ozne on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com
  11. https://www.companyofmen.org/search/?q=Adamadonis&quick=1
  12. Most masseurs who requested a pic/stats ghosted me upon receiving it, including no longer responding and not showing up to the appointment. At this point, if a masseur requests a pic, I just thank him for his time and move on. Although I don't send pics, I do describe my appearance to escorts. Ultimately, I wouldn't want to hire someone who found me so unappealing that they couldn't reasonably perform. Perhaps that's my way of framing potential rejection from providers positively.
  13. It's okay to be hurt and disappointment that this provider hasn't responded to you. It's okay to have thoughts about continuing to contact him. You can, however, control your behavior. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in meeting our wants and needs that we don't consider other people's perspectives. I'm glad you came here instead of sending the letter. If you stop contacting him and looking at his profile, these difficult thoughts and feelings will likely decrease over time. Unfortunately, due to the lack of providers in your area, you might have to travel to hire. I recognize that you're drawn to this guy, but remember, it's a fantasy. Allow yourself to move on.
  14. I highly recommend that you do not send this provider a letter. I have had many providers over the years not respond to messages for reasons unknown to me. It sucks, but it's something we have to learn to deal with. I would also recommend being careful with how many times you contact a provider. I would imagine that receiving multiple emails, texts, and calls from the same person within a relatively short period of time could be off-putting. You might be a great guy, but this provider doesn't know you.
  15. Can anyone identify this man?
  16. Booked a room at INNdulge. I've been to one PS Weekend, and I'm looking forward to this one.
  17. I've also had positive experiences with Dann, Ronnie, and Carlos. You'd have to look into how close the following are to downtown, but I would also recommend the following: Tristan https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36082/ Jayden https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41843/
  18. There is a men's social nudism group on Meetup called Dallas/Fort Worth Area Male Naturist. They have monthly gatherings that occur at a member's house or hotel room. These are basically social events (e.g., card games, food) where the attendees are all naked men. They also have other events, such as going to one of the Korean Spas or going to events at nudist parks. This might be a good way to meet guys and branch out into other events.
  19. I saw him last winter. I enjoyed the experience and would potentially hire him again.
  20. I saw William West on an episode of House Hunters International. I wonder if he still lives in the apartment he chose.
  21. I'm comfortable driving at night, but the bright headlights are frustrating. It's typically still dark when I go to work. There are times when the bright, white lights make it uncomfortable to look in my rear view mirror. I was wondering what was going on and feel validated by this thread.
  22. Despite my concerns about deposits, I ended up seeing JCmacho. He showed up, looked like his pics, and provided a pleasurable experience. I would see him again.
  23. I was going to schedule a meeting with JCmacho but decided against it because he requires a deposit. He was, however, friendly and understanding. I'm tempted to go against my better judgement.
  24. I recognize that JCmacho's ad is new, but does anyone have any info on him? Thanks. JCmacho - Male Escort, Gay massage - Dallas | Rent.Men RENT.MEN JCmacho Gay Escort in Dallas, Texas, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic...
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