MattOSUGRAD

Have you all had luck with other sites besides rent.men? I’ve seen some posts to avoid certain other sites, I just don’t recall what they were, so I’ve kept pretty much to rent.men.

I live in Columbus, OH. While there are currently 22 profiles for Columbus, I’m pretty sure over half are not locals that are just using their current location as their home location. I try to check out the site often so I can spot those that are truly residents vs visitors. Plus there have been a lot lately that’ve dropped advertising or left Columbus. I even told him I was looking to become a regular to which he said, “I prefer repeat clients”.

Lots of really great questions! I wanted to meet for dinner as I’m a rather shy person and don’t meet a lot of people (providers or otherwise), and I previously avoided someone I didn’t feel comfortable with by meeting for dinner first. With this guy, I was especially attracted to him and decided I’d go ahead and book three hours with the intent of dinner and hotel afterwards. He seemed completely fine with it and even said he looked forward to it as recently as yesterday. The reason I chose a hotel is I felt like I would be more comfortable on neutral ground. Suffice it to say, will probably just do dinner first from now on so I can get a feel for the provider. There are maybe 8 providers in the city where I live. I am looking for a regular provider and tend to avoid the ones that are passing through. As requested in another post, I will provide an update if I do hear from him. I know this is exceptionally cliche, but I felt like we had made a connection over the texts back and forth, and I am genuinely concerned about him. In the end, it will be whatever it will be. He will either reach out at some point and explain what really happened, or “really happened”, or I’ll never hear from him again. I appreciate all of the responses, as that’s all I was needing ... perspectives to help me pull back from the situation and look at things differently.

Curious on your thoughts on a recent situation. A provider and I were exchanging texts over several days in the last week. Over those days, I had initiated some conversations with an update on a dinner reservation at the restaurant of their recommendation and once I had secured a room at a very nice hotel. He had initiated some conversations as well, so got good vibes leading up to the meetup. Several comments from him about liking that I got reservations and a hotel, shows I’m serious. On the day of, I let him know 3 hours ahead that I’ve checked in to the hotel and that I’ll relax then start to get ready for the evening. No response. I text him as I’m leaving for the restaurant, which is 15 minutes away from me. No response. I wait to be seated and send a text 20 minutes after we were supposed to meet letting him know I got a table and where to find me in the restaurant. No response. It has been a little over 2 hours later, and still no text. I sent him a text saying that I am sorry tonight did not work out and that I understand things happen and plans need to change. I say, sincerely, that the most important thing is that I hope you’re ok. Have you had this happen to you? Would you see him again? Looking for input from clients as well as providers. What are red flags that may incline you to ghost someone? I didn’t think I did anything wrong or too much. It seemed like we were having a pleasant exchange, but now I’m left wondering what others have experienced.

PM for details on MascJockBrad: https://rent.men/MascJockBrad

No worries at all, I’m glad you had a wonderful experience. I haven’t had that quite yet, but I’m hopeful that will change soon.

Ah, thank you. Was hoping someone would point me in the right direction. ?

Seamus? Please elaborate.

<bump> Anyone with experience? Please PM me with details.

<bump> Anyone with experience? Please PM me with details.

Reference https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-dean-wolfe-coming-to-dc.122883/ for current information.

I had a last minute get together with https://rent.men/DeanWolfe/ & https://rent.men/BoFox/ while they were in Columbus Ohio yesterday. Highly recommended! PM me for details.

Met with Intelliginger again, and had an amazing time. PM for details or see my 2nd review (1st one is still in queue as of 05/13) to be posted soon on http://daddysreviews.com/search/Active/~/nick_cleveland Update: The comments for the 2nd review ended up being added to the 1st review as an extension, so there will be only one review on the site.

Met with Intelliginger, had a great time. PM for details or see my review to be posted soon on http://daddysreviews.com/search/Active/~/nick_cleveland