tall top dad

So most think I’m cheap…..but most did not read the point of the post. Also….for reference, have also tried to hire local, as we are in Pasadena Ca, we wont bite for West Hollywood or farther distance. We try to stay with in @ less then 10 mile radius to eliminate the hassle of traffic. Also never negotiated after a price was given. Always asked upfront, in advance. Also, if your going to hold your price, just state that, “sorry me fee is xxx”, that I can except. But don’t call me a cheap and call me out when it was just a legitimate question.
 
 

So my husband and I had masseuer for years who is no longer is in are Area…Pasadena. By the way we are dad bod 61 and 75.
been in search from someone new…fee’s have escalated….so very wary about dropping large sums for a fee for adequate service. But here is the conundrum….we bought our old Masseuer pro table, with all the accessories….foot rest, arm sling, face rack.  So when we inquire about service in call, an explain we are fully kitted out just need to show up, we are always quoted an out call price x 2. 
this elevated the price now to $300 plus .  I asked a provider if one massage could be out call and second priced at in-call price. Thinking you are making one trip, not two, your already here, so it would as if I showed up to you door. He read me the third degree, called me cheap. We do not like going to a masseuer location as we have to sit and amuse ourselves of an hour each.   Also asked one provider who offered 30, 60, 45, 90 minute massages, and asked if we could split a 90 minute massage and was told.  
so are we cheap or are we not asking something unreasonable. 

That's all well and good...and the threat of no contact is a good one...but an anonymous call to any of my contacts and my reputations called in to question...once that cat is out of the bag he does not need to ask for money...he can just ruin a reputation for spite.... While I am certainly no self righteous better than the rest, i keep my private life private....hiring an escort would not be sometime certain aspects of life would survive and the hit would be ruinous.

Well that's an awful experience......and an expensive one.......
 
Here is quick caveat about writing reviews........blackmail.
 
Hired and escort while out of town, and alone as I am married. When I showed up, had an less than good experiences I wrote mediocre performance review, both here and on his rent men profile. Because the final directions and timing directions were done via text messages on my phone, when he saw the negative reviews, he used reverse Look up technology you can buy for $29.99 and found my name, home address, my fraternal orginization I belong to, board of directors I sit on, everything. About me including my spouses name. He then contacted me on my work email as he was able to find my place of employment. So far he just demanded I take down the the less than stellar reviews and has not demanded money. Which I hope is not a part of my future. It's been just one month so far. Time will tell.
 
It's looks like a burner phone is in my future.

Well that's an awful experience......and an expensive one.......
 
Here is quick caveat about writing reviews........blackmail.
 
Hired and escort while out of town, and alone as I am married. When I showed up, had an less than good experiences I wrote mediocre performance review, both here and on his rent men profile. Because the final directions and timing directions were done via text messages on my phone, when he saw the negative reviews, he used reverse Look up technology you can buy for $29.99 and found my name, home address, my fraternal orginization I belong to, board of directors I sit on, everything. About me including my spouses name. He then contacted me on my work email as he was able to find my place of employment. So far he just demanded I take down the the less than stellar reviews and has not demanded money. Which I hope is not a part of my future. It's been just one month so far. Time will tell.
 
It's looks like a burner phone is in my future.