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Glad to hear I’m not the only one who keeps chloroform in the bedroom.
 
Kevin Slater

I'm introverted and shy, so when an escort asks what I'd like to do, I fail to articulate what I'd really like to do... and it's normally only the third or fourth visit before a fun pattern emerges... After a session last week we were drinking wine and I asked -- how do other clients ask? And he laughed - saying more often than not it becomes a "... what do you want to do..." conversation back and forth... I naively asked - given that my imagination far outstrips reality, I'm surprised you never asked me about my favorite porn (of the moment)... and have you ever asked a new client what three or four scenes they really enjoy (and who they see themselves as being in the scene)... dead silence, immediately followed with "... that's brilliant..."...
 
When meeting an escort for the first time... how do you broach the subject of what you'd like to do (without just vague top/bottom/versatile)...
 
And when meeting a client for the first time... is there any tricks you use to find out before hand what they are really into - to turn a meet into an extraordinary meet???

I'm introverted and shy, so when an escort asks what I'd like to do, I fail to articulate what I'd really like to do... and it's normally only the third or fourth visit before a fun pattern emerges... After a session last week we were drinking wine and I asked -- how do other clients ask? And he laughed - saying more often than not it becomes a "... what do you want to do..." conversation back and forth... I naively asked - given that my imagination far outstrips reality, I'm surprised you never asked me about my favorite porn (of the moment)... and have you ever asked a new client what three or four scenes they really enjoy (and who they see themselves as being in the scene)... dead silence, immediately followed with "... that's brilliant..."...
 
When meeting an escort for the first time... how do you broach the subject of what you'd like to do (without just vague top/bottom/versatile)...
 
And when meeting a client for the first time... is there any tricks you use to find out before hand what they are really into - to turn a meet into an extraordinary meet???

I've struggled with that same question in my short experiences hiring. Not ready to entertain bottoming, older, average, inexperience, and sometimes lack confidence. I began hiring knowing they had more experienced, and without saying so to them, looked to them to take the lead on activities. Should have been more communicative. I've found the guys I hired, who advertise as versatile or bottom, haven't readily suggested I top them, or I was finished, or time was up before that could've happened.
 
A couple years ago, I decided to be more forthcoming in initial communication (i.e. don't bottom, would like to try topping, etc). I was surprised when one guy responded he'd be happy to bottom for me. Unfortunately, this was a few weeks before his arrival in town, and I caught a cold, so had to cancel.
 
Also, I've realized, for me, anal doesn't have to be part of the experience. Last guy I hired advertises as a top. Stellar reputation, and deservedly so. Told him I don't bottom. Found him to be a better experience than all the others.
 
All this doesn't mean I've given up on finding a bottom partner for an hour or two. Time will tell.

I’ve been several times. The Palace and Gardens are awesome. Book a Tour of the Palace so you can avoid the lines (which can be very long). Many people stop with the Palace and the Garden area immediately behind the Palace, when there is so much more to see. There is the Petit Trianon, an exquisite mini Palace used by Marie Antoinette so she could escape the pressures and intrigue of Court Life in the Palace itself (where Thouands of Courtiers and servants resided). Nearby is the Petit Hameau de la Reine (the Queen’s Little Hamlet), where Queen Marie Antoinette and her friends would dress as Shepardesses and pretend to be peasants in this artificial Village where reportedly they would wash the sheep so the odor didn’t offend the Aristocrats. Also nearby is an exquisite Architectural Folly called The Temple of Love. A cylindrical Pavillion in Classical style surrounded by Trees in an English style Garden. Further away is the Grand Trianon. It was the residence of Napoleon at Versailles during the Empire. Much of the furniture and decoration is from the Napoleonic period giving the decor a more unified appearance. Much of the furniture in the main Palace was sold off when the monarchy was dissolved. A French docent once ruefully said that if you wanted to see the best French Furniture from Versailles you needed to go to the Wallace Collection in London.

What do your nieces & nephews call you?
 
Dad. It's complicated.
 
(Just kidding)
 
Kevin Slater

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Wow winding this back around to the OP......thank you for all the input, especially the MedMen recommendation and now I find there's one less than a half mile from the rental car place. My flight lands at 5p and I'm not too anxious to get on the 405 going south to OC then so I'm going to be a kid in a candy store and hit up the dispensary that is right there.
 
For me it's going to be like being in a strip club. Will they be offended if I'm drooling while I'm there????????

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Bravo to you for making mention of the Oxford comma!!

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