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Jamesp

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  1. There's no doubt Eli is one of the top massuers from a technique's perspective. For anything beyond that, my numerous experiences with him boil down to this - he's like a proud lion and you need to charm him. Though it sounds like a lot of work, yet if your personality naturally clicks with his and you're in sync with his sense of humor, he'd treat you like a king.

    Some people might like "Lion wooing" theme and I respect it. Generally when I book massage, I am there to relax ( mentally and physically) and expect a good massage with warm masseur. I am not sure if reversing role getting into mental tango to charm masseur just to get him warmer fit in that bill. No wonder I found him frigid.

  2. I had one appointment with me. Great massage, Very good looking and blessed But cold as winter after blizzard. If I go to Eli, I will go for therapeutic massage with cloths on.

  3. Because I need my massages done in a table, I’m accustomed to traveling in NYC where I live. But when I’m staying in s hotel, it’s a real treat to find a masseur that is willing to bring his table to me.

    I frequently travel to Sioux Falls, SD almost always to same hotel. Last year I booked a massage (It's difficult there and have really only 4-5 options) and asked for table against masseur's idea for using bed. I have been using that hotel many years now and had sessions on bed in past, but since table I started getting more smiles from staff.

  4. I like reviews like amazon. if a masseur has positive and negative, percentage easily shows trend and helps in decision making and they seem to be honest. Only positive reviews make it seem like sales pitch.

     

    I had a bad experience posting honest negative review ( I used to post positive reviews too). I was stupid enough to post that review when appointment happened in my hotel room. Masseur actually called me and threatened that he knows where I am and he can pay visit to me. Next thing I know review was gone. Learned my lesson and stopped posting reviews.

  5. Just be clear about your boundaries if the masseur starts to go past them; do it in a kind and friendly way and most will understand. It's less of a big deal than I suspect you're making it.

    May be its me. I am a bit nervous about turning a wonderful session into uncomfortable situation.

  6. In most of the tier 1 cities with good transportation and neighborhoods I know, I happily book in calls ( thumb rule 30 min on public transport or 15 min of cab ride) so far as I am not booking someone from CL. Its easier and Masseurs have home turf advantage and I get to go around at the end of day. Other places I don't feel safe to venture out.

     

    Over a period I have few regulars in different cities, so I am developing a bit courage.

     

    Still curious how to decide on masseur in smaller cities. There are not many choices. Most of the time masseur works in neighboring cities together ( my common problem in Columbus) and CL is only possible local option.

  7. Has anyone experienced a situation where a very sensual massage instead of ending with HE gets really happier ? I am really uncomfortable when that happens and gets into unsafe zone. It has happened to me few time when masseur decides to straddle and HE suddenly turns into Sad situation.

     

    Is there a right lingo to use for clear message without sounding demanding and not turning massage being freezing cold?

  8. You will likely get more helpful feedback if you post the links of the guys you are interested in.

     

    I am actually looking for recommendations.

     

    I tried few in past without much success. some of them here

     

    Eli in past. Built as greek god blessed generously and gives great massage but cold as greek statue.

    https://www.massagem4m.com/masseur/13483/

     

    Luka: he is the one feels like massage chair in mall.

    https://rentmasseur.com/Luka

     

    Bryan: Not much to call massage but he is god of sensuality

    https://rentmasseur.com/BRYAN_R

     

     

    Currently I am eyeing one of these but open for recommendations. Looking for sensual massage and of course HE

    Brad: https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/brad292191.shtml

    Fabio: https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/fabiobrazil.shtml

    Saul: https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/spanish_handsom.shtml

    Steve: https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/bigmuscleman.shtml seems to be a bit high for offering.

    Max: https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/maxmax.shtml

  9. hi

    Visiting NYC this week from Columbus and looking at masseurs options. looking at choices (compare to Columbus) I feel like kid in a candy store, some them are real eye candies and its very confusing. Last time i picked some just based on eye candy, it was disaster. Felt like massage chair in mall giving rub and tug. So learned my lesson and looking for recommendations.

     

    I am 34 6 not gym rat but have muscles in places where they look good and looking for someone similar. Not really into boys but also not in dads. Please help me.

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