Charlington

Thanks for the input thus far. Just to clarify I meant bullying at the middle and high school level, where it’s most common. I know we are protected at workplace settings as adults. But in youth not so much, it’s pretty much unavoidable. So I guess I’m dwelling a bit on my own past.

Growing up, I was never really out. But I did on a couple of occasions get taunted by male bullies who I guess presumed me to be gay. I don't think I'll be able to fully come to terms with my sexuality, because I feel that most homophobic people are men. Women can be homophobic too, but I feel they are less likely to bully or harass a gay man, than a straight man would. I just don't see myself being able to fully open up about liking other men, if most homophobic people are men. Anyone else feel the same?

Yes. He use to go by the rentmen screen name latinaboys. I enjoyed him a lot. But my scope is limited normally to just rimming and giving oral. He has an amazing ass. Beyond that I don’t know what else he gets into.

I think it’s onlyfans. They mark it out on rentmen.

I don’t think I can ever be in a monogamous relationship. I just can’t see myself having sex with only one person for the rest of my life.

Never have I ever been drunk. I tried a couple of times but nope, I’ve never been drunk before.

I’ve always been an artist more so than an athlete. Never interested in football, I don’t even understand the game. But I did like soccer as a hobby, I was never good enough to make the school team though. Nowadays I enjoy going to the gym, and lifting weights, my body is pretty athletic, though I have no interest in playing sports anymore.

Wow he looks amazing.

I wanted to know this as well. I don’t want to pay to see someone jack off, lol. He is very hot, though I’ve never met him.

An escort once asked to FaceTime with me before meeting up. He wanted to be sure I wasn’t in law enforcement. I declined.

I met him, he is legit, and I had a great time! He offers both full service and massage only at different rates.

that is a different escort. Nestorl is great, I’ve hired him before. looks even better in person. He has a boyfriend I think, that travels around with him, that also escorts.

The ad has vanished.

He’s apparently a fake. There was a review left on rentmen, about him not looking like the pictures, and demanding the client to pay him. I was able to read it using de.hideproxy.me

I thought he was very masculine, not fem at all.

I would also pick Declan Blake, mainly because of his ass, even though I normally don’t hire bottoms. I’m not too into hairy guys.

Avi dar is a nice guy. I had a great experience with him in nyc. Very responsive in communication over the phone to set appointment. Body was on point. He looks like Ben Affleck kind of. He did everything I asked for.

I only swallow if I’m completely into the guy. I don’t like to taste my own cum when I jack off. Not because I don’t enjoy the taste, but because I find pleasure out of pleasing more sexually dominant type guys by swallowing their loads. Like you, I prefer the other guy cums first, then I cum afterwards. Because after I cum my libido drops really fast. So if I plan on swallowing I need to do it while I’m still in the mood.

I love smooth holes, nothing better then rimming a clean hairless ass. I don’t mind public hair though.

If someone can’t find an attractive escort in nyc or San Francisco, they won’t find one anywhere else. I can think of several guys in nyc that I would like to hire, but can’t since I don’t live in that area. One should be grateful they don’t live in a boring city like I do with only one page of escorts to choose from.

I didn’t say they can’t. I meant they should consider changing careers if they are selective about being paid for sex/their time.

I think we are digressing from the original question. Dating/hookup preferences are different from whether or not an escort should be able discriminate from seeing a client. One is paid, the other is not. I personally think every person has the right to date/hookup with who they find sexually attractive. But I also think if a paid escort discriminates based on race, they are in the wrong profession.

Impulse control of hiring escorts.

wow that must of been really awkward/embarrassing.

I like them both. I consider old school porn the 1980s era. Like Kevin Williams, Chad Douglas, Jeff Stryker. They had the best tan line asses. But I like the raunchiness of new porn. I can’t remember ever seeing a guy cum in the mouth of another guy in a 1980s porno. But now it’s common. And Marylander is right, porn now is a lot less homogeneous. More races are also represented. In the 1980s all the gay porn stars looked like frat guys/jocks.