Great thread and very interesting to hear everyones perspectives. I have had a limited number of massages (other than for strictly therapeutic reasons) and have had only about 5-6 different providers. Only one expressed that it was an erotic massage/male bonding experience that was available. Both of us were naked with a lot of mutual body contact througout with a happy ending at the end for me and potential for more which I actually declined. The other providers I have tried did not specify erotic vs sensual but all were done in the. nude with mutual touch throughout the massage and happy endings for me and at times the masseur at some point. All I will hopefully have additional massages from. My preference is definitely to have the sensual element and mutual respectful body contact througout the massage rather than just at the ending. Interesting to hear the various perspectives!