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Well I dont know you so I really can't say. But if you hire escorts with violent criminal records with no regard to the crime you are really throwing caution to the wind.

I get what you are saying but each escort is different and I feel that if they know what they are getting into upfront there is a better chance for the encounter to be amazing. I fear rejection and would rather be rejected early on than to invest time into something and get let down.

Depends on the crime. But if the escort goes for the revenue rather than declining business, the consequences are on him. I expect to be vetted but most rarely do.

You get off on the risk and danger factor. You may not realize it but you do.

I draw the line at felony convictions. Theft, assault, domestic battery, rape and sexual assaults, child crimes, drug convictions, murder but not necessarily manslaughter. I knew one escort that had a manslaughter conviction that happened because he was driving drunk and hit someone.

Gosh, man. It seems like you treat them like human dildos. If an escort is willing to fuck me, I give as much passion and respect as I can. The escorts that are good at their jobs will sense that and will respond in kind. Money is the sacrifice I make so that I can be touched and feel desired. If I was just interested in a technician I would just use a dildo.

That is lovely. I like how you would handle that.

Yeah, it can be a dangerous area. I love the psychological aspects of fantasy. I can not get off unless I am mentally stimulated. Fantasies that evoke love and passion are my weakness and greatest satisfaction. I am an ugly man and have never been loved so these type of fantasies are most fulfilling.

That is so true. My ass needs a resting period before play after cleaning. It sucks to take an hour to prepare but the alternative is dreadful.

Actually you want veggies. High fiber diet. Low carbs, no breads or pastas. It is about controlling the consistency of your stool and making sure it is firm and easily washed out with an enema. Metamucil is great for binding everything together.

I have a friend who is a private investigator and they do the search for me. They have access to things I dont. After nearly being murdered years ago I fully vet my potential escorts. I never ever divulge any data that I learn. I made that mistake once and they thought I was a cray cray stalker. Sometimes though it is hard to get valid info and on those I politely decline to proceed. Since vetting, the worse I have encountered were drug charges and dui.

Pausing breaks the fantasy. I know it is not real but if you are fucking me into utter submission I am going to say I love you. Now if you say I love you after the session has ended then boundaries have been crossed. If I wanted a passionless fuck I would just use grinder or go to the bathhouse.

Thank you for your reply. There have been times I would have preferred to wait a bit to give that info but thought it was required. Nice to know I have options although I generally dont mind giving my stats.

My sexual gratification depends on the tops ability to cum. If you fail to cum then I feel like I did not please you. I do not have sex to get off, I rarely cum. For me it is the intimacy with the top and getting them to cum. It is an incredible feeling to feel the cock pulsing as the top cums.

I was a horrible kisser till an escort was kind and taught me how. I miss him.

It takes me an hour to prepare to bottom. Plus a strict diet the day before. I am mortified by any leakage from me.

If you are fucking me and I say I love you, then dont say anything back, just kiss me. Dont break the fantasy.

I am an ugly man so I always treat my escorts kindly. In return they help me forget that I lost the genetic lottery.

Dont say a word. Keep the info to yourself. Even if they disclose to you what you already know, do not reveal that you knew. There is a very fine line between due diligence and stalking in their minds.

It is a fine line to walk. I had an escort I fell in love with once because the interactions seemed so genuine. He was just really good at his job. I stay grounded in reality now.

Oh my, I remember one potential escort that looked so hot but had a voice that was a huge turn off. I always chat by phone at some point before committing.

A versatile/top is a bottom that fucks when they have too. I avoid them. I only hire strict tops.

I dont book an appointment until a thorough vetting and background check has been done.

I have a friend who is a PI do a search and background check before I hire any escort. I never disclose this to the escort. I want to know if you have a tendency for violence, theft or drugs. I know this freaks some out but I had a really bad experience years ago and lesson learned.

Waste of money me thinks.