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Also you find the perfect fit then they retire or move to another state.

Thanks EV Dude,
Yes that is it exactly, some young guys actually prefer the Daddy type. I was just saying I have issues in that area. In the straight world you might hear "She's young enough to be his daughter" so those thoughts do get ingrained. So no need to take exception. But my apologies for not bing more PC in this very sensitive world. Life is short just enjoy what ever experience makes you happy as long as all involved are on board.

Yes this has always been an issue for me. Almost mid 50s' (wow where did that time go) I always feel like uncle pervy if I am getting a massage from someone in their 20s. Though I do on rare occasion. I have had really good massages from every age group over the years. Though some of the worst have been older guys 30's to 50's. Age doesn't always bring expertise and some just have natural skills at an early age. I think if you are hiring someone in their 20's read the text in the ad carefully. That and the pictures are good clues. If it is all about them and little about the client experience you shouldn't be surprised by a bad massage. A photo of the massage space is a great clue to the type of experience you might encounter, a 20 something that has taken the time and effort to create an environment conducive to a relaxing massage is usually one that cares about his clientele. In all honesty when we were in our 20's we probably would have preferred to massage athletes and models over paunchy old guys but that is the trick, finding a person who generally cares about the client no matter what age or how he looks.

Yes this has always been an issue for me. Almost mid 50s' (wow where did that time go) I always feel like uncle pervy if I am getting a massage from someone in their 20s. Though I do on rare occasion. I have had really good massages from every age group over the years. Though some of the worst have been older guys 30's to 50's. Age doesn't always bring expertise and some just have natural skills at an early age. I think if you are hiring someone in their 20's read the text in the ad carefully. That and the pictures are good clues. If it is all about them and little about the client experience you shouldn't be surprised by a bad massage. A photo of the massage space is a great clue to the type of experience you might encounter, a 20 something that has taken the time and effort to create an environment conducive to a relaxing massage is usually one that cares about his clientele. In all honesty when we were in our 20's we probably would have preferred to massage athletes and models over paunchy old guys but that is the trick, finding a person who generally cares about the client no matter what age or how he looks.

Yes I tried a spa that was advertised like this on Backpage. Located in Sunland. Was expecting a masseur and a masseuse started the massage I then had to try and communicate that I preferred a masseur. Finally the guy in reception finished the massage. Just a massage nothing else which was fine since it was just on a whim I don't usually do the spa or massage parlor thing. Too many memories of old cop movies showing raids on these establishments LOL. There are a few guys that advertise on m4m and when you call it is a spa and you don't get who you are calling for. So there is that situation to be aware of too.