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I booked a session with Spencer, who's better known as porn star Logan Stevens. If you want to know what happened, you could PM me, but right here, I'm gonna be a little philosophical. On any given day, if you ask me if I think he's sexy, and if I'm attracted to him, I'm gonna say yes. In person, he truly is: nice body, pretty scruffy face, and that musky smell from his body... He's everything I'd dream of in a sexual fantasy, as I can also see in his porn videos at any time. Unfortunately in reality, my brain works differently. From the first moment I saw him and started a conversation, my brain just started to compute the differences between what he thought he was like and what he was actually like. He's every bit of sexy in person, but the computing in my brain still killed the vibe a little bit. The massage was good and deep. I sit at a desk all day, and my back needed it, but because the massage was good, my mind was nowhere near the gutter at all, even though my fantasy man was touching me! Since I knew he could see I wasn't aroused, my mind started to worry that he might be thinking I didn't like him in person (as I told him I was a subscriber of his JustForFans page). Nevertheless, I am still attracted to him, but when he was there, in my mind I couldn't treat him like the guy he was in his own videos. He was just a good looking stranger that I would look at, but probably too insecure myself to have an instant sexual connection with. We talk about here everyday that which masseur's cute, hot, or sexy, but I think the best masseur should be someone that can put your mind at ease. If you have a usual masseur to go to, and things have been working out well, then there must be a reason. Trying something different might be a bad idea, even though it sounds like a good one. Don't get me wrong, if you like Logan Stevens, hire him, the massage is great, and it's a porn star bucket list item to check off, but beware that it'll probably not going to end up like the fantasy you've imagined. (It's funny that he said something about he no longer had energy to party hard during holiday gathering with younger people, and I almost said that wasn't what I would perceive from all his threesome videos?...)

I was just enjoying my new TIM membership, and I accidentally found out that he used to be a porn star named Nick Forte with Treasure Island Media. Must have been his San Francisco days.

You know we always talk about YMMV at this forum, and because of that, during a massage session we sometimes try to hint at the masseur verbally or physically. Therefore, I'm wondering if anyone has worn a butt plug to go to a massage session, and that actually made something happen? Thanks in advance for sharing, either publicly or privately.

Just took one for the team, and had a last-minute appointment with him. He was very accommodating given the short notice. The massage is definitely one of the best I’ve ever had, deep and relaxing. Extras are somewhat lacking, but given his rate, it’s good enough I suppose, and YMMV. Anyone who wants a little bit more details can DM me.

Just had a similar experience with him: I contacted him and ask a few questions about his session, without answering any one of them, he directly asked me about my address! I told him the intersection, but he pressed me for the street number. I got annoyed, so I decided to just ignore him. Within 5 minutes, he decided it was a good idea to just insult me, calling me "a flake or a creep." I blocked him now.

...and he has a somewhat abandoned JustFor.Fans channel as well...

I ran into his RM profile by accident today, and thought he looked familiar. Then, I realized he used part of his real name, which reminded me his real full name—We went to the same university, and we still have mutual friends on Facebook! I thought he was somewhat cute back then, but he seemed to always be in his own world: never saw him talk with anyone on campus, and I was too shy an international student from China myself to engage him. Wouldn’t mind hearing more about his massage just for some gossip?...

OK, since no one replied to me, I decided to take one for the team. I ended up having a very special time with him. Our time together was very relaxed and organic. Nothing felt forced. You could PM me for details.

Texted him earlier this morning, but no reply yet...

Bump again!

I've already PMed the original poster my recommendations, so I don't feel too bad about steering the discussion off topic. I'm Asian, I'm not hung, and I'm around 30 pounds overweight. I've hired 4 L.A. area masseurs in total so far mostly based on rate and whether or not they can do outcall to my location. I've had good experiences with 2 of them, and I don't want to hire the other 2 any more because their extras were too much. Therefore, it's absolutely inaccurate to say most masseurs in L.A. are anti-Asian. Honestly, as someone who immigrated here from China, I don't understand how people, who grew up here, can live their life seeing every obstacle they encountered as a result of racism. That's a big turn-off for me in a man of color, actually. Granted, most of the men I've been with are white, but that's after growing up in China seeing millions of skincare commercials about whitening, hearing how other older Chinese people complimenting white skin, big eyes, and tall noses. Maybe the beauty standards I grew up with are racist, but it wasn't my fault, nor was it any white person's fault. It also f**ked me up too, I have small eyes and wide nose, so I had to grow up thinking I'm ugly. Coming to America makes me realize that there are people who appreciate how I look, and I also learned to appreciate the beauty of people with darker skin: I've had encounters with Latino, black, and mid-eastern men. Therefore, you can call people racist, or you can give them a chance to learn and appreciate you. It's always hard to be refused, but as long as I still have a type, I can't bring myself to blame others for not being into me. Yes, you can always argue masseurs shouldn't discriminate, but we are not talking about masseurs that work out of your chiropractor's clinic, are we?

Bump!

I'll be visiting San Francisco around Martin Luther King's day weekend, so I'm thinking about meeting someone up there. Here's his profile on RentMasseur.com. If anyone have any experience with him, please feel free to PM me since his profile has plenty to imply. I'm also considering Allen Silver, but his time is obviously more valuable.

My usual masseur wasn't available during the Christmas weekend, so today I got a little bit desperate, and started looking among masseurs that were "available now." I eventually hit up this dude on RentMasseur.com. You know we always say YMMV, so when we try someone new, we really don't expect much. Then, if it escalate too quickly, and we'll probably just like "Whoa! I really didn't sign up for that!" That's what exactly happened. Other people here, however, may be interested, so you could PM me for the details.

Anthony: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/932/ Clark: https://rentmasseur.com/Clarkmassage Anthony apparently is a 4-hand partner of Clark’s.

If anyone here had a 4-hand massage with both Clark & Anthony, please PM me with some details. Thanks!

If anyone here had a 4-hand massage with both Clark & Anthony, please PM me with some details. Thanks!

I have been recommending Clark here, but personally I never said it was his massage that was excellent, and I believe many people who tried and liked Clark also mentioned he’s not a professionally trained masseur but he does try. This is a forum where gay/bi/curious men are mostly looking for massage with extras, and that’s why people recommend Clark. Even that, I always tell others not to expect more than just a regular HE because it always depends on the masseur’s connection with the client. Masseurs are not chiropractors, so to me relieving some back pain is important, but at the end of day, massages can’t heal my back pain. It takes both chiropractics and excercises to achieve that, so why not cut the masseur some slack as long as the extras are better than usual?

I'm 30 years old, and I prefer white or latino men, older than me would be better. I prefer some body hair, but that can be optional too. I fantasize about bottoming, but I don't it often enough, so I don't need a huge cock; a 6 to 7-inch one would be fine. I need someone who's patient and can show some genuine affection in the process. I know some people will recommend Rod Hagen. I've met him, but we really didn't click; to the point it took me a while to get off... He did try to be patient and affectionate, but I think it's because I have theatre backgrounds, it didn't feel genuine enough for me. Thanks.

Definitely Clark; now that I see I share Clark with this many people, I’m starting to feel a little jealous, lol—He’s that good!

Jack’s good-looking, but not off the chart, or super characteristic. Thinking back, I’d say he looks like a very tan hippy version of Jesse Tyler Ferguson (definitely not as flamboyant as JTF) with full ginger facial hair, and somewhat thin faux hawk hair. Maybe?

Bump, been curious about him too!