BlakeBenz

I’m sorry, but you can’t take a dictionary definition of a “pimp” and take it for fact. Especially when you have no knowledge on THE GAME. That book was written by a bunch of squares who I’m sure have no game knowledge either. That definition defines an agent, or a manager.. not a pimp at all. Like I previously said I’ve encountered many pimps. One almost costing me my life. I live in Houston where about 7/10 of the strippers and working girls are pimped. These men manipulate, control, physically & mentally abuse these sex workers. There’s no taking “part of” their earnings... these escorts often times don’t even have 100$ to their name while the pimp is holding on to tens of thousands. They have to ask for money for anything. Food, get their nails done, and if they want to go shopping they better work harder!! You’re out working 7 days a week. You don’t have calls? You sit a hotel bar working all night or if you’re in Vegas those girls are out working the casinos 12 hours a day looking for a nice watch to steal and pawn off to impress their P. Pimps are brainwashers. They find you when you’re weak, heartbroken, flat broke and in a sticky situation... they offer you a helping hand and appear as a “friend” to help get you back on your feet and you owe them in return. But when do you stop oweing them? That’s where they get you. YOU DONT! You want to leave? Not with out getting your ass beat before you’re thrown out on the street again with nothing. They get so stuck in these situations its pretty much easier for them to believe all the lies and stay. I mean, he takes care of the bills and they get some nice designer things here and there.. so it’s all good right? These men are master manipulators and 100% pure evil. Pimps do no real work, and never have done real work.. they just finesse hoes out of their money just like the hoes finesse tricks out of money. This was response was not only completely ignorant, but triggering as well. You don’t know anything about pimps so do not speak on it. I’ve seen more than I’m sure many people on this thread. Having your friends beaten unconscious until they’re bleeding out of their ears (they had a concussion and were still forced to work the next day). Having your friends in the emergency room because they were beaten so bad that their jaw was broken. Having friends ask to come over to hide from their pimp because he’s going crazy and they’re scared, only to go back after? Having to lend friends money to get back on their after literally running away from their pimps and having no money to survive. Trying to unbrainwash your friends that you love and care about to think for themselves, see their value as a person, and believe that they can do the same things and make the same money without him.. Only to have these pimps work just as hard at convincing them I don’t know what I’m talking about. EVENTUALLY having to leave the people you love and care about behind because at this point it’s so draining you can only worry about saving yourself. Oh and let’s not forget the time one went completely psycho while I was in the back seat of his car, driving recklessly over 100 screaming at us and threatening to crash and kill us all as we all cried and begged for our lives... I’m sure none of you REALLY know what a pimp is.

Exactly why my mounted TV is for decoration and does not get used or even have cable. I am against all media unless it is work related

Pimp?!? Lmao... let’s not be so naive here. There is a HUGE difference between a pimp and a manager/agent. A pimp isn’t taking 10-20% of your earnings.. they’re taking 100%. You are forced to work and if you don’t you have the shit beaten out of you. Pimps prey on the mentally vulnerable, brainwash them, and reap the benefits with no real work on their part. You still find your own clients and do all of the work you were doing before and NOW you’re giving it all away. A manager is posting your ads, finding your clients, keeping you organized, and charging a small fee in exchange. They’re actually working FOR YOU. You can fire them and move on at any time. Let’s not forget to mention YOU choose when you work. No one is forcing you to be on the clock or out looking for work. Pimps are not good people. I’ve encountered many, and no I have not ever nor will I ever work for one. I’ve had many friends who have been pimped, as well as several working for agencies. I can’t even associate with any escorts working for pimps anymore because it is so emotionally and mentally draining. Pimps and managers... BIG DIFFERENCE!

You’re only a product of the culture if you allow yourself to be. Most people over AND under 30 are brainwashed by the society we live in. Sad but true.

Why would you proceed to contact someone who has made it clear they are not interested in being contacted?

I’m pretty open about my escorting without excplicity labeling my profile with anything stating that I’m for hire if that makes sense? Like I make it so if you went into my profile you’d be able to gather that’s what I do. I include an email address in my profile but that’s it. I’ll receive DM’s and yes when the question is asked I will mention I’m a “happiness consulatant”. I feel like it is pretty easy to spot an escort profile on IG. Young people traveling, in expensive brands, and with no sense of a job... people aren’t stupid lol

Private jet only lol

I’ve been booked thru Instagram many times. I don’t have twitter but I’ve heard from friends that it’s great to have.

Mile high club has been on my bucket list for a while now.

Agree to disagree. Like I previously mentioned, I’m speaking in general. Your situation is different but if I showed to your place or you came to my Incall and it’s our first time meeting and the donation couldn’t be paid upfront I would leave. I have reviews to back my credibility, as a client you don’t unless you’ve been placed on a black list.

I agree the escort didn’t handle the situation correctly AT ALL, very un professional. However, this comment really bothers me for 2 specific reasons and I know many of the escorts are going to pretend they don’t agree with me. Why was the business side of things not handled first? Yes the experience of the client is most important to me (aside from my safety which is top propriety) but let’s not forget the reason we are both here in the first place. If this was your first time with the escort, how would he know you have the donation? Especially an Incall... what if you just ran out? Or what if you became violent or started being disrespectful (i.e. Stealthing AKA tampering with the condom which many don’t know but it is sexual assault). I always leave in those sitauations and yes, with the full donation. You don’t go to the grocery store, go home and cook, and then come back later and pay for it. You pay before you get to enjoy. & unless you are an established and trustworthy regular of mine that’s how it should always be. Be smarter than this boys. My other part is, you only paid him for half the time. I understand you felt ripped off, and this isn’t targeted at your specific situation. In general, I want people to understand how that would feel. What if you went and provided a great service but maybe the client came within 30mins and goes “well it was only 30 mins so here’s half of the money”.... absolutely not. I understand “money is for time” but let’s be real here... it’s for the experience. If you were penetrated or got to penetrate, there abosuliyely should be no problems with the rate (weather you’re prepared or not). I have plenty of regular clients that pay for 2 hours but only stay for one. Pay for an hour but only stay for 20 mins (they cum quick) and still tip. The stingy behavior is my biggest turn off.

To me this sounds like the person you’re referring to is just a shitty bottom (pun intended lol) I am the BBC queen and there’s never “a little something” on the Condom, SQUEAKY CLEAN *knocks on wood* hahaha

How someone handles this situation has a lot to say about their maturity level, both escorts and clients. You’re putting your dick in a hole that shit comes out of (excuse my language) it’s a risk you are taking from jump. Knowing that, I’ve had clients want me to top them. I know my ad is all about my ass since I prefer to bottom but I am blessed on the front side as well. Most of my clients are straight, I have a few openly gay clients. That being said, you can only imagine the situations I’ve been in when asked to top. I always handle it respectfully. People get embarrassed and I let them know it’s okay! Relax! No need to worry, it’s normal! I’ve even made the situation a little more light by saying something like “it’s gay sex, shit happens (;” they usually chuckle and it’s all good. A lot of straight guys aren’t going to know to douche before hand. I take the opportunity to politely educate them and the next time they come prepared or others never want to try it again haha. Now would I re-enter afterwards? Personally, no. But I’d be happy to take care of them in other ways! As for me? I’ve never had that problem. I don’t take any supplements or anything like that. Just enema before hand and I’m always good to go without any issues. Even before my days as an escort, even without an enema I’ve not had problems. I know my body very well.

I discount the second hour.

Really great responses on this thanks guys!

Most my clients are straight so I’ll be at any of the hotel bars and casinos on the strip.

The boy was arrested sometime last year, I’m not exactly sure when but they were agressively interrogating him asking him if he has a pimp. He was like “ummm, what?!” I’ve personally never encountered a gay pimp and I’m in Houston where pimping is very common amongst female providers. My female friend arrested just this last summer, the same thing happened to her pretty much but all charges were dismissed. They really are after pimps. I guess my fear comes from the sense that this wouldn’t be my first time caught in a sting so I can’t really afford (and I don’t mean financially) a second encounter with vice. My punishment would be not so light.

Normally I would agree with you on that, but the second person I mentioned was a male! Vice told them they are very focused on males as well now because they could be victims of sex trafficking as well. When my female friend was arrested there were two gay guys arrested along with the large group of females.

I am very familiar with Las Vegas however this will be my first time working the internet while I am there. One of my female partners was arrested recently there by vice while working the casinos, and another person I’ve worked with in the past was arrested via their ad online due to agreeing to too much over the phone. I just received phone call inquiring to my travel dates I posted for Las Vegas, and he says “I saw your ad for massage in Las Vegas and I will be there at the same time. Can you tell me more about the massage? I’m looking for a massage and a blow job.” OBVIOUSLY I am not going to agree to that, so I hung up. It’s Las Vegas and vice are everywhere. Why would I incriminate myself? So this leads me to my question: How do you screen your clients in Las Vegas? I have a background check service I use. Will it be a deal breaker for many clients if I ask for their ID for screening purposes? Or should I just stay vague on the phone and use my best judgement in person (I.E. hug the client and feel for wires from a microphone, engage in the encounter before asking for the donation, etc.) I guess I’m just a little nervous seeing that i will be there for the porn awards and I’m sure vice will be hot. Any clients also reading this, would you feel uncomfortable having an escort ask for your ID in Vegas for screening purposes or would you be understanding? I’m almost scared to work the internet at all. May just stick to the casino bars and lounges. Any input is appreciated! Thank you.

Definitely have had my fair share of cancellations in the past. I understand life happens, and seeing how a large percentage of my clients are straight and married I understand that sometimes things come up and it isn’t always going to work out. I appreciate as much notice as possible. If you’re a new client of mine and let me know something came up I’m always very understanding. Now let’s say that same client cancels 2 times in a row, I will add a cancellation fee to the next appointment. At that point I know if they’re serious or not, if they are they will be understanding and have no problem with that. If they’re not they obviously won’t contact me again. Now let’s say I have a no call no show from a new client. I feel that is disrespectful of my time. I made sure i was groomed and ready for the appointment and my Incall location is prepared. The lack of respect shown when being flaked on like that I will have no interest in working with that client in the future. If you can’t respect even my time, how are you going to respect me during the appointment? I know that the appointment is about the client and meeting their needs but there are definitely some things that can happen that will cross a line with the escort (I.E. Stealthing) I respect myself enough not to exchange energies with people who cannot show common respect. As far as my regulars go. They always follow through. I’ve had a few instances where there’s been a cancellation or two but they always give notice and reschedule for the following day or a later time. It always works out. Today I had been contacted by a former regular of mine who asked to see me, and I politely decinlined due to the fact that he would no call no show on his last 2 appointments. I explained my feelings on it and he understood and said if I change my mind to let him know he would like to see me... safe to say my mind never changed lol.

Unfortunately not yet! Maybe someday. Also, you’re assuming the procedure was something on my face.. it’s not

I've had it.

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Agree with the last part of your statement but in regards to the first part, that's why you engage lightly before asking for the gift. A kiss or a some type of physical contact. My regulars receive the luxury of paying after, but until trust is built the donation should already be laid out in view otherwise of course I am going to ask. I have a large circle of high end female escorts and they all do the same. Let's not forget these men are strangers to us... what would you do if you just completed the session and they didn't have what was negotiated? I have totally been robbed of my sexual energy back when I was new to this.