My expression of my personal opinion and preference is my act of freedom and I think the message forum is for both the good and the bad about people in this trade. It’s up to us to whether take it or not, listen to or not, or read or not. If someone asks for a 411 on an escort or any masseur, would you not give your personal opinion or preferences too, whether here in the open or in private?
Yes, maybe we should be selective...not just as posters but as spectators as well.
And about body shaming— kind of difficult to draw the line when it is descriptive or destructive in the escorting trade, isn’t it? IMO, only intent will dictate on whether it is or it isn’t.