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Curious to know if anyone has attended the Blatino Oasis weekend event held annually in Palm Springs (except for 20/21 due to Covid)? I know this event caters to men who are black or brown, but curious to know how the vibe would be for someone not black or brown attending. I understand all are welcome in the spirit of inclusivity, but don’t want to feel super uncomfortable if I choose to attend. if anyone who is not a POC and has attended, I would be interested to hear your experience. The event is coming up in May 2022.

Thanks for the feedback. I would love to see his sex videos but his overview summarizes his fan page as tasteful but not “porn”.

Curious to know if anyone subscribes to this guys Only Fans account? He is a model who has had some NSFW photos leaked a few times over the years. Would love to know if his OnlyFans is worth subscribing? Interested to see if there are any updated NSFW photos or videos that he shares. https://onlyfans.com/laurentxiv

Can you share his Instagram link?

I haven’t been to SF in 10 years. I’m definitely planning a trip back very soon. There were a couple of places that had sleazy type dancers and a raunchy environment. I think they were in SOMA. Or was it the Castro? Folsom Gulch - did they have a space in a basement or lower level? There was an Asian bar on Polk/Sacramento (?) What bars/clubs have dancers now?

As much as this topic is heart wrenching and difficult, it’s enlightening to know that it seems common to share these struggles with aging parents and finding appropriate living assistance. I’ve already got one parent in a private caring home due to his stroke. That was very difficult because he wanted to “go home” for the first 6 months (it’s been 18 months now and I don’t foresee him going home). My mother is 81yo, living at home but relies on us kids for assistance. She went from living with dad for 55 years to now living alone. Because of covid, they don’t see each other more than 5-6 times a year. I wonder how lonely she is with the sudden life change. She’s also hearing impaired so we worry about emergencies, etc. She’s extremely stubborn and getting her to an assisted living facility is out of the question (as far as she is concerned).

This is heartbreaking. I’m sorry.

I believe a lot of it has to do with just being stubborn. At least that is the situation with my mother who is 81, hearing impaired but refuses to make any adjustments to her life as long as her kids and grandkids are available to assist. It has caused a lot of friction with my siblings and even some sort of resentment at times from us and the grandkids. We are just taking things day by day. I do my best to channel my frustrations elsewhere, but there are days I come across as the parent and my mother acting like a child.

This is sad, but truthful. My dad is in an assisted living home at age 80 due to a stroke. I get to see him weekly and take him to physical therapy, etc. He told me that the service and accommodations are great, but it’s the residents that make the place depressing. He spoke about some residents having dementia, some passing away, etc. I wish there was alternative.

https://losangeles.craigslist.org/lac/bts/d/los-angeles-best-m4male-waxing-body/7379990370.html ive been to Victor from this CL ad, as well as Gregg who was recommended from another member. Both do a good job

Correct. Dylan Nerd w/ Big Hands is the guy in LA who gives and amazing massage and “works” the legs and glute area with enthusiasm.

Curious to know if it’s painful when you’re scraping over a muscle group or area? I have a high tolerance for pain, but the red marks makes me wonder if it feels as bad as it looks?

Does anyone know a masseur who offers the Graston Technique or Guasha in the LA/Weho area? I’m looking for a legit session and someone trained on how to scrape and break up some challenging muscle adhesions/knots. I’m not interested in going to a physical therapist if possible. Prefer an independent masseur or body worker.

I’ve seen them around in the Thousand Oaks area. She seems happy and comfortable with him. He also appears to treat her well. Maybe it’s just the skeptic in me. I agree that it would be hard to be around her 24/7.

The timing of this engagement is suspect. I truly hope he isn’t after her money now that she was able to end the conservatorship. I hope she has him sign a prenup. Kevin Federline was a freeloader who received alimony.

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Thanks for the birthday wishes!

Oh gosh, those topics are the story of my current life! Just today, I was trying to map out when it will be time to move my parents into assisted living.

That’s awesome! 45 pledges is a large class. I still get my fraternity’s quarterly magazine and I follow our national fraternity on Twitter. And I also get the “Alumni Dues” monthly email requests. Lol. It’s surprising how large some of the pledge classes are. Especially in the south, Some of the class sizes are between 50-70 strong. in my school here in SCal, fraternity size averaged 60-80 actives, 10-20 pledges each semester. the Greek system has evolved so much. Being an alumni, it is clearly run as a business nationally. There are so many guidelines that the chapters need to follow to be compliant with both the university and national headquarters. My nephew is planning to rush at my alma mater and I’m super excited for him.

What school did you attend?

It’s funny how I was 100% involved with my fraternity for 4 years and had the best experience. I thought I would be connected to my friends for a lifetime, but once I graduated, my social group changed and I haven’t been in contact with anyone. I had a desire to reconnect with a few, especially those from my pledge class so I did some searches on LinkedIn, social media and thru other search engines. I found quite a few, but haven’t pursued much since. Not sure why I haven’t followed thru. Seems kind of awkward to reappear after 30+ years? I wish I would have stayed connected to those I was close to

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35829/ this guy wore a mask during our session.

Has anyone stayed at the vista Grande resort? Hoping to find accommodations that mirror the Hacienda or Santiago, but they book very quickly. I’m a bit fussy with hotel rooms and appreciate comfort and cleanliness.

With the school year underway for Fall 2021, I was just wondering if any members were in a college fraternity? For me, it was over 30 years ago but really enjoyed the experience.