Clen

Gratitude for me comes in to play when an escorts stands in the pouring rain ( CNN was reporting the rain as a flood) under an umbrella in ankle deep water just so I can watch a street performance. We had so much fun laughing and talking , huddled under the coverings that a stranger had to tap our umbrellas and tell us that the rain was over and we could come out. Priceless experience for me @peterhung85
In all other escort bookings gratitude comes into play when for a short period of time the professional allows me to forget everything and enjoy the moment. Difficult thing to achieve in a my busy life and worthy of my gratitude. So a tip is the complement and a thank you that I would give if I were prone to verbal compliments.

There may be a mental health issue here folks...

https://rentmen.com/JadenDrills
anyone out there ever meet this guy? Any thoughts?
As always, thanks to all

In my case, with my first escort, @AresEscortNYC, I did later share my gratefulness with him, giving him all the credit for starting my climb to higher self-esteem in all aspects of my life! This amazing man continues to rock my world whenever I see him, sexually yes, but also in many other ways. I will always celebrate arriving at his apartment that first time back in 2011, where he welcomed me whole-heartedly into his embrace. Yes, I paid him for his time, but he gave his friendship to me freely, and continues being my good friend to this very day!
 
I do believe when you are dealing with human beings, nothing is black and white. Have I enjoyed my encounters with those escorts who furnish great BFE's but do not become my "friend?" YES! With them I get my money's worth and great satisfaction. They are able to rock my world sexually, which is why I am enthusiastic about seeing them multiple times, whenever they cum through my area or I visit their city! Yet there are just a few special escorts who have opened up enough with me emotionally over time in my interactions with them, that they have actually become my friend.
 
Of course, they're the exception, but my life continues to be enriched by these rare special relationships. When I began this hobby, I felt that sexually, life and love had passed me by my entire life. I felt that although a few hook-ups had become life-long (non-sexual) friends, my sexual life was pretty well finished, except for masturbation. @AresEscortNYC changed all of that, in fact, showing me that my sexual life was anything but over, and additionally granting me a friendship which ultimately caused my self-worth to grow and continue to grow.
 
I realize there are clients out there who only desire what they want when they want it but could never conceive of friendship with an escort. For them, it will always be a monetary transaction only, to furnish them access to a hot man with an impressive dick or a tight, willing butt. I believe them to be completely satisfied with enjoying what they crave sexually, but the idea for a relationship beyond sex with the man attached to that big dick or that tight butt will never cross their mind. They pay for a service, they get a service. They're satisfied. There is nothing wrong with that. It's definitely one aspect of the escorting business. I am just happy I sometimes discover so much more!
 
TruHart1

I lost my partner after 22 years. It was devastating, and I went thru that period of crushing depression. But I learned my only limitation was MYSELF, and it was MY choice to sit and wallow. Once I got over that,
I was able to move forward, although I still, after 22 years have my moments of lonliness and self-pity. I dont think anyone but Myself could have gotten me over my hump. But they do say that the best way to get over an OLD love is to get UNDER a new one.

Is it really scratch worthy? You have been out your entire adult life (I believe) and living in NYC. Still, can't you imagine what it would be like to come out late in life or maybe in some really remote location? Can't imagine how a good encounter with a good escort could change the trajectory of a closeted man's life?
 
I've been out since I was 16 years old and mostly living in major metropolitan areas, but I have a "he changed my life" story. After the death of my partner, I went into a long period of self-imposed isolation and depression. I'm not sure I would have ever broken the cycle if I hadn't got horny and met an escort who was both good at sex and a really good guy. I know I wouldn't have re-entered a normal social life, but after seeing him a few times, it woke up that part of me.
 
He didn't know he was doing it. I never shared much of my history with him. But just the good fortune of meeting a good guy actualy changed the course of my life.
 
I think that sometimes a lot of the "changed my life" is just hyperbole, but it does happen.

You are fortunate your finances match your generosity. I always say "if it feels good, DO IT"... so if tipping your boys floats your boat, by all means, MAKE IT RAIN....

...and what is wrong with getting preferential treatment from a hot, hunky 'service provider?' Sounds to be worth every extra dollar to me!
 
TruHart1

I completely agree with you, @Clen. The best escorts (such as @peterhung85 or @AresEscortNYC) do SO much more than just furnish a sexual adventure! They rock our world in so many other ways, too. Perhaps some clients who hardly even hire, never really enjoy(ed) themselves enough to tip. Ever!
 
TruHart1

I am pretty sure they

 
I think people mean changed their lives sexually. Good sex can be empowing.

Gratitude for me comes in to play when an escorts stands in the pouring rain ( CNN was reporting the rain as a flood) under an umbrella in ankle deep water just so I can watch a street performance. We had so much fun laughing and talking , huddled under the coverings that a stranger had to tap our umbrellas and tell us that the rain was over and we could come out. Priceless experience for me @peterhung85
In all other escort bookings gratitude comes into play when for a short period of time the professional allows me to forget everything and enjoy the moment. Difficult thing to achieve in a my busy life and worthy of my gratitude. So a tip is the complement and a thank you that I would give if I were prone to verbal compliments.

I will own part of that characterization, I am not altruistic I absolutely understand that tipping could lead to preferential treatment in scheduling bookings.

Thank you, But I didn't come up with this formula on my own. My first encounter many years ago was Peter hung and he was kind enough to help me understand what a professional escort is worth and if I treat them with respect they will return it. I have great memories of his ability to slip into any situation with me and make it seem like we have been friends forever. Worth a lot in my eyes.

I will own part of that characterization, I am not altruistic I absolutely understand that tipping could lead to preferential treatment in scheduling bookings.

Oh my, the amazing ideas bandied about here! There is so much nonsense in this thread but I just couldn't help myself and read the entire thing. I'll never get that time back. It is surprising that there are so many newer posters here with different ideas about this frequently raised point. My favorite concept was expressed on the previous page - the idea of a "respectable" tip - well it just boggles my mind. The concept of a "respectable tip" implies such a sense of arrogant entitlement that seems shocking to me. A tip is a voluntary (well, maybe not in some instances. Some guys here still feel compelled to tip. . .) additional monetary reward for going beyond the purchaser's expectations. Some people it seems to me need to expect more for their hard-earned dollars. I've enjoyed many a fine fellow but really I can't say that I experienced anything beyond my expectations.
 
I will say though that Clen's description of his experience in the rain with Peter hung would probably qualify in my book as going beyond.

This is easy to answer. I will try to explain in few words as possible. If an hot eschort is welling to have shower sex with me to start, push me gently to the wall after (15min), stick their tongue done my throat playing tongue hockey, suck on my nipples, run their tongue down to my stomach, suck my dick standing up (10min) , then suck my dick on his knees than on the bed and lick and suck my balls maybe rimm(15 min) then romp with me in bed (10 min) then suck me off till I cum (10 min). I guess that service would be worth $350 or more to me. Hince, the $50 or more tip. The best part is that eschorts who charge less get a bigger tip.

I think you've got a great attitude. Gratitude is not a dirty word or a weakness. In fact, I think it's quite the opposite. A lack of gratitude, for things big and small, is usually a sign of a bitter and unsympathetic person.
 
I expect an escort to be grateful for my business and the respect I accord them. I am grateful that I have the income to partake in this luxury and that there are beautiful young men interested in providing the service. In a healthy and satisfying arrangement both parties show a little gratitude. It's just expressed in the currency that we each bring to the exchange. One has cash and the other has genuine affection.

Gratitude for me comes in to play when an escorts stands in the pouring rain ( CNN was reporting the rain as a flood) under an umbrella in ankle deep water just so I can watch a street performance. We had so much fun laughing and talking , huddled under the coverings that a stranger had to tap our umbrellas and tell us that the rain was over and we could come out. Priceless experience for me @peterhung85
In all other escort bookings gratitude comes into play when for a short period of time the professional allows me to forget everything and enjoy the moment. Difficult thing to achieve in a my busy life and worthy of my gratitude. So a tip is the complement and a thank you that I would give if I were prone to verbal compliments.

Gratitude for me comes in to play when an escorts stands in the pouring rain ( CNN was reporting the rain as a flood) under an umbrella in ankle deep water just so I can watch a street performance. We had so much fun laughing and talking , huddled under the coverings that a stranger had to tap our umbrellas and tell us that the rain was over and we could come out. Priceless experience for me @peterhung85
In all other escort bookings gratitude comes into play when for a short period of time the professional allows me to forget everything and enjoy the moment. Difficult thing to achieve in a my busy life and worthy of my gratitude. So a tip is the complement and a thank you that I would give if I were prone to verbal compliments.

Thank you, But I didn't come up with this formula on my own. My first encounter many years ago was Peter hung and he was kind enough to help me understand what a professional escort is worth and if I treat them with respect they will return it. I have great memories of his ability to slip into any situation with me and make it seem like we have been friends forever. Worth a lot in my eyes.

Not generous really very self serving, I think it fosters an extremely professional experience. I forgot to add that I am a pretty demanding person in terms of being on time , dressed for the occasion, and maintaining the appropriate professional distance. I think the saying goes "we aren't paying them to stay , we are paying them to go away"

Potentially yes. However I do book multiple hours so that the base rate tip and other costs do not seem like such a large portion of the outlay. One hour would make it seem outrageous however say three hours and now it seems more reasonable.

Not generous really very self serving, I think it fosters an extremely professional experience. I forgot to add that I am a pretty demanding person in terms of being on time , dressed for the occasion, and maintaining the appropriate professional distance. I think the saying goes "we aren't paying them to stay , we are paying them to go away"

Thank you, But I didn't come up with this formula on my own. My first encounter many years ago was Peter hung and he was kind enough to help me understand what a professional escort is worth and if I treat them with respect they will return it. I have great memories of his ability to slip into any situation with me and make it seem like we have been friends forever. Worth a lot in my eyes.

And again we have yet another testimonial as to how excellent @peterhung85 is at going above and beyond the "usual" escort services. You were very privileged to have hired Peter for your first escort, @Clen!
 
TruHart1