Dances at the club are not private per se, lapdance room is in the back with U shaped futon sectional, you grab an empty space on that U and get your lapdance. Hard not to glance around but you want to stay focused on your guy cuz one song and $20 goes fast. You want to put down a few songs at least just to get to know your guy and have somewhat of a conversation. Just go with few hang ups it really can be fun