I can also attest to the "short massage before things progressing" train. I'm a total top and boy was it amazing to find someone who was that hot and hung go crazy over it. Needless to say, he should add "verse" to his escorting if he still does (this was 4 years ago)
One thing that weirded me out-- I was rinsing off in his bathroom after and his shaving kit was open. There was a lighter and a spoon inside clearly visible (I didn't rummage). It made me wonder if he parties a bit.
PM me for any details or if you wanna swap Big Ben stories He was such a good time