Feeling like I should give up the all male spa fantasy and return to red door spa and hand and stones. The thought that being comfortable in an all male environment is totally not worthy the efforts. Had Mark at Utopia last night who asked for 100 tip and said the spa charged 80 for an hour. After I said I was told 60, he told me 60 was for 45 minutes, but 45 minutes is not even an option at Utopia. What is wrong with me? How come I only had these kind of awkward experience?