To be honest, I have not found a better feeling that blowing your load after someone or while someone is sucking your dick and running their tongue all over the head. I have not thought vaginal sex was better than that either. Therefore, never bothered to try topping when sucking on my dick is a so much better feeling. I suppose I need to try it again to be 100% sure I am right. I mean right for myself. I am sure we all have our preferences.