NavyChief

DM me. Experience was good but a few years ago. Did it twice

I'm afraid the earlier sarcastic remarks redirected this thread to being one about specific experiences or masseurs we liked. I think the question is "What is it in general about m4m massage that we love?"

 

I love getting to pick a man I'm attracted to and, usually, he's caressing my body and often more than that in a short span of time. That's a fucking miracle. What's been important to me about massage, however, is forcing myself to relax and be touched. I enjoy handling men's bodies and get such pleasure from feeling that I've satisfied them that it's hard for me to just lie there and let him work on--and maybe even sometimes enjoy--me. But it's healthy to surrender oneself physically to another person. And my experience with m4m (and even "legit") massage has been so positive. In amost every massage I've ever had, it's moved me how earnestly the masseur has either worked to heal my body, to make me come, or both. I can say it's generally more reliable, in this respect, than experiences with men who spent time with my body without getting paid. Thank God for men who give themselves to this work. I can never thank them enough.

 

I think it will always be hard to resist going for some MT immediately, but I'm always glad when I'm patient and experience the unique pleasure of being attended to. Afterwards, there's usually plenty of time for that and more!

Agreed. The MT part is the ml ost difficult to judge. I am a gentlemen and try to be respectful. This is not about sex. There was one time when in was new, that the guy literally took my hand and put it on his chest. Or even put his cock in it. I missed all cues. Anyway, I'm more perceptive and just wait until the obvious "inadvertent" brush ups happen. Ifor they don't, then I just lay back and enjoy the massage, which can also be quite freeing, taking away the nervous anticipation.

Oh, it has to be the indigenous flute music in the background, with the stale patchouli aromatherapy wafting through the air, accompanied by the masseur’s cat wandering in while his phone buzzes, or perhaps the musky odor of the not-so-fresh sheets. I could go on and on, but you get the drift.

Wow.... I know we have all experience that... awful!!

Type A personality here (and mostly a forum lurker!) that truly enjoys giving up control for 90-120 minutes to someone else who is going to pamper me with human touch. The chance to turn my brain off and let someone else take control of what’s happening in a safe, welcoming environment is pure bliss to me.

 

It’s an escape from reality. Reality being that I’m not an Adonis, my body isn’t amazing, and I’m not coveted by the masses for what I have. Reality being that outside of the therapist’s room, I have 30 people all vying for me to pay attention to them, deadlines that require me to focus on a specific thing for too long, bills that need paid, floors that need vacuumed. On the table...none of that matters, because the brain switches off!

I just had that experience with https://rentmasseur.com/Bliss_Bodywork. Just amazing young man and just embodied trust. That is the first thing needed to be able to let go.

Ben at

https://rentmasseur.com/Bliss_Bodywork

You cannot beat him in the Baltimore area. Wonderful guy, super sweet, excellent massage skills.

@niceandthick, I had a session with him and greatly enjoyed it. Good massage skills and the sensual aspect was excellent. Moreover, for me he gave me the immediate sense of trust. Most definitely will repeat.

I have. Especially a dentist, and a few orderlies. Being in the military, mostly males, so there is a chance obviously. All extremely professional and competent, and before or during DADT policy. There were the occasional times during a procedure, especially when they were in scrubs or even khaki uniform, the inadvertent crotch press was oh so grateful observed. Of course, nothing more and still makes me quiver just bit "down there" thinking about it.... LOL

An aside, the one down side of the NE new policy in the military is that straight guys are now much more aware and private in locker rooms, showers, etc. And with it the banter, camaraderie, and gratuitous admiration of the male form. IMHO

My all time favorite is still Aleksei

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5122/

Just no words can describe. If we lived in same town, I would have to fill bankruptcy, or just put him on my payroll. And the lingam massage is just...... explosive!

Hot client. Why didn’t the masseur take his tank top off?

Not so hot body.... or cold? His self-image. Trust me, I totally understand on a personal leve that one!

Ok - moving from reality based to something more porn. I mean, this one is kind of hilarious (its in espanol) - but it works every time for me.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph561df171e7169

I understand the Spanish and trust me the same grunting words said in English. While I may have the fantasy of double dicking, that poor guy's hole was tore up. Those were some big cocks going in there. Ouch!

Jake was my goto in DC for massage. He is sorely missed here

So, definitely not the same rent massuer IanLA and the rentmen IanLA. That is weird. The MFs are no longer active as mentioned in the the threads. He was quite responsive in the RM email, so will see how things go. He know's I'm coming in Jan and just planning. Things could change and I of course have a back up.

I would be remiss if I did not share. Honestly would rather keep him all to myself, but.... wow. Enjoyed a wonderful time and highly recommend. Sincere and simply wonderful. I will not kiss and tell, just wow.

https://rent.men/JeanAli

Business travel to SD in January, and lookng for some west coast "attention". Any solid recommendations?

I am digging this guy https://rent.men/IanLA

Business travel to SD in January, and lookng for some west coast "attention". Any solid recommendations?

Stephan and terrace look familiar from MF? Anyou information on them. And never heard of mustardseed. Is it a spa or app?

For the discerning minds..... YES! Enough said. had a wonderful experience with him yesterday.

I was unaware of things then, but now thanks to the forum, much more enlightened.

And he’s doubled the i in his name & now on RentMasseur as well. I doubt the erotic is erotic.

https://rentmasseur.com/Viictor

with some, anything is erotic for the right price, and depending, I would be be "kneeding" him. wink wink

that tall drink of young man, I would be happy having him on my table for an hour. I will do all the work!!

I travel 470 miles round trip and this requires an overnight to see a favorite Masseur monthly - He is exceptional therapeutically AND:) well worth the long trip!!!!!!!!

 

He keeps me mobile at 71 with RA and makes me feel desirable!

who is it?

Adding to list

as am I. tks

no nude policy. great massage and nice man. highly recommend

Cumming to DC, wow

Alexsei always uses a table, but he drives places from Florida

Any experience on this stud? I think he is passing through DC, not sure from where.

https://rent.men/LucasMasso