Congrats to you for finding like minded folks and threading that needle! I think i share your fantasy as well but the tough part for me would be finding that sweet spot of appropriate physicality, (which for me depending on a variety of other factors would be different from one person to another that I myself can't adequately explain. I just feel it from the overall "vibe".) And then also i know if I were to be on the receiving end that psychologically i know myself and would only want that submitted feeling and "power dynamic" to be limited to the bedroom only. Outside of the bedroom it's complete mutual and equal respect. So alas for me hard to communicate and paint that full picture comprehensively with short and limited encounters with 'scorts hahaha.