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If a masseur opens a massage spa in chicago area, members only, would you consider being a member?

If a masseur opens a massage spa in chicago area, members only, would you consider being a member?

That’s what I heard as well. I hangout with a friend who tried him and he like him a lot. But he also like Vince a lot
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/persian_steel.shtml
 
He showed me Viince’s photos that they took together during the appointment. Vince’s phot on his ad don’t do him any justice. He is hot as f#*%. He only does outcalls though

Yes, i plan on makimg it worth his time and effort to book a room. That he didnt ask makes me want to help with room cost all the more.

No answer to a first contact with an escort is puzzling. You never really know if it's just a bad time, he isn't interested, or whatever. Usually I don't try again right away. I have waited a few weeks or even months and tried again (usually because I see their ad again). And in one or two cases I've gotten a response and a meeting has resulted. Having read posts from escorts on the site I can understand how a text or email can be overlooked. They can get lots of replies with no way of knowing which are legit clients and which are time wasters.
 
I have one or two regulars who sometimes don't text me back right away. With them I've learned it's just their style. No answer means they're busy. If I try again the next week or whatever we can usually find a time to connect. Yes, I'd much prefer they just text "can't meet now" but whatever. All is forgiven next time I see them naked.

I took the plunge with Joe yesterday. My goal was a really good massage. I had no expectations beyond that.
 
He answered my call right away. Very nice demeanor on the phone. Talked me into 90 minutes even though I only wanted an hour since it was my first time with him. I was a little suspicious but needed some deep tissue work, so I went with the longer session.
 
He had me text him when I arrived. I texted him at 11:55 for a noon appointment. He didn't respond for 10 minutes. I was about to leave and then . . .
 
He called me and guided me up to his apartment. Couldn't have been nicer. Great presence. Cool mid-century modern apartment. Very nice, large studio.
 
We got off to a late start, but he more than made up for it. Definitely straight, but neither narrow (minded) nor shy.
 
PM me for details, but the bottom line is that Joe is a sincere, sweet, skilled healer and I will definitely see him again. When I saw him, I had low back pain at about 8 on a scale of 1 - 10. Today, I'm active and nearly pain free. Highly recommended

Yes, i plan on makimg it worth his time and effort to book a room. That he didnt ask makes me want to help with room cost all the more.

Thanks for the great advice worked perfectly. He was very open and informative. I'm more at easy now.

Thanks for the great advice worked perfectly. He was very open and informative. I'm more at easy now.

Yes, i plan on makimg it worth his time and effort to book a room. That he didnt ask makes me want to help with room cost all the more.

Yes, i plan on makimg it worth his time and effort to book a room. That he didnt ask makes me want to help with room cost all the more.

Thanks for the great advice worked perfectly. He was very open and informative. I'm more at easy now.

It should be communicated beforehand if the appointment is In/Out call. Once that is sorted out, then you're free to pay the provider's fee + any additional tip you wish. Don't feel obligated to cover their room expense.
To OP @Mocha
Judging by your last post, you seem very bitter from recent cancelations and not receiving "sure thing" bookings. Cancelations are unavoidable. I've had very reliable regulars still cancel.. It happens. If you're fix to this is charging every client a deposit, good luck. This will likely not cover your "expenses" and will certainly drive clients away. That's not the direction I'd take, but hey it's your method of business and not mine.

I'm new to hiring, my first time is tomorrow. He is getting a hotel near me, he didn't say if I should pay for the room.
What is the norm? Now that I think about I'll bring extra money just in case.
Btw I cant host because my brother lives with me in my home.

This has been mentioned in other threads, but seems like it might be of interest to some who read this thread. Some hotels do have rooms available during the day:
 
https://www.hotelsbyday.com/

It's not normal without arranging that with you in advance. You should feel free to contact him now and ask him what the total fee is. You shouldn't feel like you need to carry extra cash around 'just in case'.

So what's up with the sudden influx of hot young masseurs, or "masseurs," listing Chicago as their hometown on rentmasseur.
And they all charge $250-260 per hour, hmmm....?!

Wow, you're a tree where are my climbing boots
I'm 5'10", Vince is a bit taller than me, I would say 5'11" all muscle. Text him to make sure he could cover that distance.

I've seen Ryder a few times, nice young fit guy, good massage, give him a try, i usually see him weekdays after work. Pm me for details.
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