I’m not sure exactly what one would describe as a BFE. I’ve never had a boyfriend.
I would describe my time with him as a sexual encounter. He kissed but I could sense the hesitation. He hinted on that in the text exchange prior to the meeting.
I met Cade shortly after I posted the OP.
While he was traveling with Jason, his escorting activities were not under Jason’s control.
It used to be that Jason answered all the calls and arranged all transactions for his boys. There was also one set of rates for bookings.
Cade told me that this time, they conduct their own business. I’ve seen that. Each guy has his own contact info and rates. I spoke directly to Cade about our booking.
I’ve been doing that on an older Android phone. I have an iPhone now but I’m too lazy to transfer my “collection” to it. Here are the ones who made it to my Favorites list
It’s my usual response to providers who ask me what to expect in the encounter. One recently replied with “You don’t do Popeye’s or Bojangles?”
I feel that it diffuses the initial tension during the “what you are into” exchange.
Anthony Rapp starred in an old SVU episode about a university that tried to hide the abuse of students by its professors. I remember liking his nuanced portrayal of his character. Now I know where he drew his inspiration from.
I add most of my hires to my contacts list. That way, I have a way of remembering them.
In the Notes section I add codes like KFC (he Kissed - he Fucked - he “Came”)
NKNFNC - (No Kiss, No Fuck, No Cum)
Check this guy out when he’s in your area.
He’s one escorts who really took good care of me. When I told him that, he said it was his business to please me. Nice!
He’s on tour with Jason Sparks but Jason does business very differently now. He lets his boys handle their own bookings.
To me it felt like it was all about the money. I'm not looking for romance or anything, but at least there's an expectation of the providers being into what they're doing.