The first question I posted as a newbie was about providers topping me BB without my consent. Maybe to some old timers on the forum, that was “strange”. I remember being scolded for not taking care of my sexual welfare and safety. But the very reason why I posted the question was because I wanted to know how to take care of myself in such situations.
Sometimes, posts that may appear “strange” come from sincere, naive, uninformed posters who are reaching out for help. They just may not know how to express themselves in ways that are acceptable to “forum experts”
BTW, English is not my first language.