I was with a provider today and at first I did not want to touch his hair because of the discussions on this thread. But when he sucked my nipples, I not only touched his hair, I pulled it!
I always paid their individual hourly rates. The only times I got “discounts” were when the first guy told me about his friend in the parking lot or hiding in the bathroom.
My understanding of a power bottom is that he is the one initiating the action, he is the “active” partner in the anal sex. By contrast, the regular bottom is receiving the action.
He’s very hard to contact. Takes him about 12 hours to reply. By the time he does reply, he’d already left town. He usually isn’t in the city that his ad shows. He was supposed to be in my city today but suddenly changed his location to Minnesota.
I’ve done it so many times I’ve lost count. I’ve enjoyed most times. The only disappointing ones were those with guys who would not have been good whether solo or in a group.
My conversation with him sometime back gave me the same impression that I will have to convince him to do everything I expected of him during the session.
I don’t mind. I have long come to the conclusion that I’m a boner-killer. I’ve met many well reviewed providers in this forum who could not “keep it up” during their time with me.
I’ve had a lot of good times with Cade during his stint with Jason Sparks and at least twice as an independent. I’m thankful I met him before he became so in demand. Looks like he’s turning into a diva now.