I’ve read from way back on this forum that the client does not directly ask the provider about stuff he will do to avoid communication about paying for sex.
My usual reply to the question, “What are you looking for?” is “I’m a bottom. I don’t do bareback. I like good kissers and love getting a guy to climax in my mouth. Are you cool with that?”
Sometimes it seems like providers are turned off by that. They stop replying. What do you think?