Yea foresight would have helped. I was thinking about this and wasn't sure how to react other than to deny today because I was surprised he asked this question after so many months. It wasn't until I was alone and checked my email that I realized he responded just one hour prior. I understand this new thing is a lie, but my initial massage email was not entirely (fine with the referral part). When we finally spoke in person, he actually initiated the conversation, and after finding out he was a trainer, that prompted me to try a couple sessions.