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    Claudio_XXL NYC Rentmen - WOOF!

    in The Deli

    Posted

    Thanks. When you got in touch with him did you call or text? Texting would at least give him the opportunity to use google translate or some such.

    Paradoxically, though, the fact that his English is poor actually makes me feel a little better; less likelihood of a sting. I may still try getting with him next week but I'm still hoping some other kind hearted forum member can provide a little more info before I take the plunge. Thanks to all.

    P.S. I remember going against your advice a few months back and hiring Ben Bateman and not having a good experience. I hope lightning doesn't strike twice! ;)

     

    Were you able to set a date?

    Do you check the client's page?

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    I have a client profile and pics on RM... they are all me, they are all real... i would say they are "of interest"...

     

    but i still get asked questions about things that are explained in my profile.... and despite my very specific nickname, get hit on by escorts who are interested in "just one thing"...hehe

     

    This is what happens when your thicker than a milkshake:D

    Do you check the client's page?

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    Clients having a profile bio filled out helps bridge the expectation gap just the same as escorts having their profile filled out does.

    Some of my best clients have started contact by texting me, introducing themselves, stating to read their profile to get a sense of their interests, and states their availability, all in the same initial message.

    I almost came from reading such messages lol.

    I am mostly just available to San Francisco and Los Angeles, as my travel situation is "complicated" as of right now.

    You can PM me for more info.

    As far as RM hashtags, it's hard to say because I don't see alot of escorts utilitizing them, and I am not sure how clients use them to search.

     

    I have had that experience before but I actually unloaded in my pants. I didn’t even realize I was hard.

    I will have to give what your client did a try.

    If I can get tickets to K-Con next year I will hit you up. I should have my profile updated by then :p.

    Do you check the client's page?

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    Just go with the flow and enjoy!

    The mentioned above can be just as important as condoms and lube yes.

    I for one have one personal bag and one sex back for when I do a travel trip.

    Some escorts will charge more or accept less depending on what the client is into.

    I do not agree with this business model as it crosses into illegal behavior zones, and quite frankly is very distasteful.

    Clients do the same thing in haggling pricing based off what they are looking to get into.

     

    Yes I don't understand the haggling. I would not feel right doing that. Do you travel a lot around the country or just within Cali? Has RM adding hashtags helped at all? What are your thoughts on RM clients having or not having a bio?

    Do you check the client's page?

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    That part, having fun in terms of needs is subjective. I was talking more about communication pre meet, and how an escort, especially when traveling, needs to arrange schedules and logistics, but sometimes a client ignores those logistical questions because they feel their needs to reassure they will experience what they want out weight any question an escort will have.

    Similarly, an escort will ask you what are you into to gauge if they need to clean out/take Viagra, take the appointment or not or charge you differently based off what a client is looking to do, all the while ignoring a client's advances to nail down the logistics of meeting.

    You didnt face plant into anything by the way:p

     

    Wait there are different charges for different things? Do you mean the difference between hourly, overnight, weekend or different pricing for fetishes/kinks? Would you say cockrings, viagra, or similar products are a necessary tool for escorting like lube and condoms. Every time I see an escort with an erection I truthfully want to ask what is your secret because I honestly dont believe your that attracted to me. I never do for fear that 1 may be wrong and 2 it comes off as being rude/insulting to them.

    Do you check the client's page?

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    Thanks!

    And that's the thing actually.

    Is that sometimes people can't or don't care to distinguish between what "most" people do, and what a select few are doing, even when the differences are staring them in the face. They lump the few into the many and treat them as such while all the while only taking their needs as the only important one.

     

    Talk about face planting straight into that one lol. Sorry your right I should of said some. If you dont mind me asking how can a client help fulfill an escorts needs? I am always wondering if the guy I am seeing is actually having some fun.

    Do you check the client's page?

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    Everyone, I mean every type of person, client, escort, demographic, asks what you into questions. It sucks to have to answer when you already list where that information is readily available. It's even more frustrating answering all these questions while the other person ignores your question about meeting logistics, only to find out schedules don't line up in the first place.

     

    Really even clients. Your page is the most detailed I have ever seen. That is amazing that you still get asked such questions. I could understand saying what your not into because it seems like most escorts check off every box.

    Do you check the client's page?

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    Hello Guys,

     

    Why is it that at least 1/4-1/3 of the escorts that I have e-mailed ask what are you into?

    I understand that your mailboxes are inundated with e-mails probably even more now since RM got rid of whether you do in/outcalls and price. So I was wondering do y'all check potential clients pages?

     

    Sincerely,

    Aquarionsol

    Is it rape? He consented to penetration but not orgasm...

    in The Lounge

    Posted

    Sounds like the guy is an asshole....but I wouldn’t classify the given scenario

    “dude you can fuck me.....just don’t cum in me......oh fuck you came in me”...as rape.

     

    When you let a man put his penis inside you...only a moron doesn’t think

    there’s a possibility that he’s going to cum inside you. I think we have to

    be very careful when we start broadening the definition of “rape”.

     

    Rape is sexual assault....not just a sexual partner...who happens to be an asshole.

     

    To make the ad absurdum argument...what if I say “you can fuck me as long

    as you don’t touch my balls”...and in the heat of the moment you forget and

    touch my balls....is that rape?

     

    I do not believe this would be rape. The actual sexual assault is the forced act of penetration. If someone does not object to the penetration but only whether you ejaculate or not I do not believe it would be rape.

     

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-mysteries-love/201803/why-agreement-sex-is-not-consent

    https://powertodecide.org/sexual-health/your-sexual-health/articles-about-healthy-sex-life/was-it-rape-thinking-about-consent

     

    Sexual Assault, the umbrella term for all sexual violence, is generally understood as a coerced or forcible unwanted non-penetrative sexual contact.

    Rape on the other hand would be the coerced or forcible unwanted penetrative sexual contact.

    1) It sounds like Mr. Zayne was being coerced into having sex that he did not want.

    2) Mr. Zayne consented only to being penetrated not to be ejaculated into.

    3) Mr. DiMaggio was being sexually deceitful by allowing Mr. Zayne to believe he would not ejaculate inside him.

     

    Mr. DiMaggio definitely violated the limits that Mr. Zayne said he was willing to go. I would say he was raped, with todays standards, especially if the act took place in a state with Affirmative Consent Laws. At the very least he was definitely sexually assaulted. Obviously every person is different that is why the sexual partner matters in these cases matter because not every sees things the same way. Look what happened to Bill Cosby and Harvey Weinstein. So if he says don't touch my balls you best not.

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