Been thinking for a while if I should share this story but thought I should get opinions from people on this board.
I went for a massage with a masseur who did a great job technically and sensually. Towards the end, we had great time/chemistry (or at least I thought) and the masseur tried for intercourse. He did not have condom on so I said “sorry I can’t” as soon as I felt that he was planning on going in. He asked surprisingly what do I mean I cannot. I said I prefer safe sex and unless you have condom I cannot do it with you. He said he is on prep and that’s what prep is for; safe sex. I replied that I was not on prep but I do practice safe sex. We continued without going full stream until the massage is done. Right before we said good bye, he gave me advice “please be responsible to the community and get on prep”. I was surprised and didn’t know what to say so I left without saying anything. But I felt like I was being complained to by the fact that I am not on prep and practice safe sex. Did he assume that gays that aren’t on prep aren’t responsible? Or Is there something I didn’t get from his message?