I have quit in what I though was my “go-to” guy for the same reason. Maybe he’s so comfortable with me now that he talks more than performs the actual massage. It’s not even as good as it used to be. I need him for the massage. I have more than enough friends should I need to talk to someone.
Life is short and your time is precious. With 24 hours in a day, average person sleeps 8 hours a day. That leaves us with 16 hours.
A normal job is typically 8 hours of work with an hour commute, and an hour lunch. This leaves us with 6 hours of available time for the average normal model individual to spend on activities beyond what I have already mentioned.
- Career
- Body
- Health
- Friendships
- Emotional development
- Emotional growth
- Family
- Relaxation / personal time
- Sleep
- Education
- Finding happiness
There is absolutely no way for anybody to work on every thing all at once. You have to pick what to focus on and other things will get negligent. No one is perfect. However sometimes I hear expectations that absolutely blow my mind. Highly educated, ripped body, highly developed emotionally, has a career, hot, and under 25.
What.
If someone focuses on their career, family and sleep then that normally leaves very little time for other areas, and that is perfectly ok. You can switch out what someone focuses on however the end result is the same... there may be someone who is able to do everything I've mentioned at once but I don't think it is the norm.
Point being, why bash someone else's decision on what they decide to focus on?
If someone decides they need to focus on body, health, and decide they need to find help with money and use their body and health. That's cool.
If someone decides they want to focus on their education and career and decide they need help with emotional development and use their money from the return of their education and career. Go for it.
If someone doesn't meet what you are looking for in their focus's. Move on.
Telling someone they should change what they focus on in their lives because you think it's the right way or suggesting about other people what they should focus on in their lives because you think you are right.
