Hiya. Fairly new here but have been lurking a bit to see if I could get the info I was looking for but thought it would be easier to ask outright.
I've hired a couple of masseurs, mostly from Masseurfinder.com. Some have been good, some have been strange. Basically, I'm an infrequent massage-getter because it's a stretch for me financially but I treat myself every blue moon. Now is one of those times and I'd like to hire someone who fits my needs. I am always seeking a balance between an actual serious massage situation to work out my knots and help me destress and find balance but I would be lying if I didn't appreciate someone sexy with some sensual elements. I'm pretty shy too so having a little bit of trustworthiness and sensitivity to that is a bonus. Past disappointments have mostly been the quality of the actual massage (weak) on one end and on the other, too outrightly porny (not looking for an escort). I don't mind sensual or even a bit sexual but that's not a priority and I was surprised as to the number of times that something that physical began to happen.
You guys seem to have the best knowledge so I leave it to you. Did I leave anything out? Tips, please! Thanks!!