Very interesting analysis, @Tarte Gogo. My situation is a bit different: I have been in a relationship for the past 15 years and, even if I am 10 years older than my soon-to-be-husband boyfriend, my sexual drive is way, way higher than his, and my appetite for boys a lot more voracious. We are still very much in love and do have terrific sex once in a while, but I need more.
We have an arrangement that has worked very well for us: we can fool around on the side as much as we want, with three basic conditions:
- never bring the boy home
- no free hook ups, only paid sex with escorts is allowed
- be transparent and never hide anything
It is the best of both worlds to me: my escort boys fulfill my sexual needs, and my boyfriend provides all the necessary love, emotion and intimacy I want. I am a happy camper.