There are times that I will ask about a particular escort via PM. Some members have been more forthcoming than others but that is their prerogative. I have then been contacted by PM about an escort that I have been given an information about. Even if the information that I had received is good I will contact the first person and ask them if its alright if I relay the information (bad or good) to the person asking me. Because the one of the outstanding points of the forums are to glean information about a lot of things (especially clients' experiences with working guys) I hope members respect each other's privacy. I guess that is my Christmas wish.