I enjoy showering with masseurs. And usually I ask them after our first meeting. I don’t ask all of them. Just the ones that I feel that there’s a connection and offer more than therapeutic. Up until now, all have accepted. I always make sure to let them know that the time showering is part of the session. And I tip accordingly ☺️
A couple have peed while showering. They ask first if they can do it. I’m not into WS. So it doesn’t do much for me.
If I were you, I’d ask them after meeting face to face. Not over text. Just let them know that you just want to watch. Nothing more. I guess most wouldn’t mind. Tip accordingly.