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I know a few day laborers, and they’ve shared stories about being offered extra cash in exchange for sexual favors. Most of them find it amusing, brush it off, and decline. There’s also this guy I‘ve known for a few years —he’s handsome and fit . On weekends, goes to the Home Depot parking lot to look for work. I think he might be bisexual; he’s married with kids, but when he’s drunk, he becomes very affectionate with me. He hugs me, holds my hand, and asks me to kiss him on the cheek or neck. One day, he even unbuttoned his shirt and told me I could do anything I wanted, that there were no limits. I didn’t act on it because he was very drunk. I’d consider doing something with him if he brought it up while sober—or at least when he wasn’t that drunk.

Back in San Diego.

IN San Diego

Any updates?

Any updates on this guy?

Guy of many talents! He's a barber too

Any updated on this guy?

More new pics... then is he a scammer?

The ‘Russian roulette’ analogy seems overly dramatic. In Russian roulette, pulling the trigger with a bullet leads to immediate death, while an HIV infection today is treatable, allowing individuals to live long, healthy lives. So yes, the analogy does feel exaggerated.

English is not my 1st language. So I had to ask ChatGPT. Is it correct? The phrase “and gentle lapping up of the jouissance” combines poetic and psychological language, and it may carry a sensual or intimate tone, depending on the context. Here’s a breakdown: • Gentle lapping up: This phrase suggests a slow, tender, and perhaps delicate approach to experiencing or savoring something, like taking it in carefully and fully. • Jouissance: A term often used in psychoanalytic theory, especially by French psychoanalyst Jacques Lacan, to describe a form of intense pleasure or enjoyment. Jouissance can mean more than ordinary pleasure; it implies a kind of overwhelming, almost transcendent enjoyment, sometimes bordering on excess or even discomfort. Together, the phrase implies savoring a deep, layered experience of pleasure or fulfillment in a slow and delicate way. Depending on the context, it might describe emotional, intellectual, or even sensual pleasure.

Were you draped?

Based on previous threads, it sounds like you often encounter challenges and frustrations in your line of work. Have you thought about changing careers, or are there positives that keep you motivated in this field? Sometimes, if you can’t handle the heat, it may be best to step out of the kitchen.

I know! It’s surprising how some providers keep raising their prices as if their service meets high standards. Ironically, the truly skilled masseurs with excellent service often have more reasonable rates. When prices are high—almost like escort rates—the quality of both their massage and business practices is often disappointing.

Does it happen often to you?

Some of the things you mentioned are what I’d consider the baseline for good service—not necessarily a ‘WOW’ factor. For me, the ‘wow’ factor comes when someone goes above and beyond basic service and good business practices. This reminds me of a thread I started years ago called ‘Masseur Best Practices.’

Using reverse search image you can find a lot of info about him. Real name, YouTube channel, TikTok, etc.

Higher rates now...

He quotes: 60 min 200 90 min 280 outall +50

He posted face pics now.

Yeah. Not that often. Lately I’ve been very disappointed with the “new” generation of masseurs. I’ve hired some great masseurs in the past… because of this (for better or worse) my standards are very high.

When we both “finish”…. Not just me.

He’s a nice person, excellent text communication, but lacks skilled massage techniques. His movements were repetitive, with no variation in rhythm or pressure, and his range of techniques was quite limited. I wouldn’t describe him as well-trained, or if he is, his technique could use improvement. After a few minutes of starting the session, he attempted a full deli experience, which made me uncomfortable, and I had to ask him to stop, which he did. He did provide a full-body massage, but the same stroke was used throughout. He does hug you from behind while you are on the table, but he doesn’t really use his whole body to massage you. Overall, it was an average experience, but I wouldn’t book another session. I’d prefer more technique, less deli and more sensuality throughout the session.

For me it’s been - towel warmer - heated table - masseur covering my feet so they don’t get cold. - hot stones - long hug and kiss before session - when the masseur undresses me - when the masseur showers me after the session - when they text after the session with a short thank you text - scalp, feet and hand massage

Any updates?