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Thanks for the feedback. And an open relationship wouldn’t work with this guy. And I don’t really want an open relationship. I wouldn’t feel right for me at this point.

No, this is just a regular guy. We met online. And we’ve been “dating”(ish) for a couple of months. But I think I’m falling for him really bad. He’s not at that point yet. But I used to hire masseurs weekly. And now that interest is gone.

I’m seeing this guy. And I thing I’m falling for him. And have no desire of being with anyone else… I know that usually the “in love” phase does not last forever… just wondering if anyone can comment on this. Can you be in love and hire at the same time. I think I can’t. For better of for worse. Also I don’t think I can cheat. The lies, the drama, the hiding is not for me. Too much stress…

Wow his rates. 😯 Rates 1 hr | $200 1.5 hr | $290

Hello guys, I’d like to know if you have any recommendations for the best condoms when you have a little ED. I usually take 2.5 or 5 mg cialis before sex and it works great with no condoms. I’m a top. At the moment I’m dating a guy who only has sex with condoms, and I’m afraid that will not help with our ED. So I think I’ll need to increase the cialis dose or maybe use viagra (never used it before). And find the best condoms for ED. Hope you have some advice.

Now that I’m taking a break from masseurs, I’m hanging out more often with my friends. More theater, travel, concerts, etc. But I realized the discrepancy in income between some of my friends and I. For them $400-600, is an expense that they need to cancel or really plan in advance due to their budget restrictions. 😔 Last weekend I went by myself to see a musical because they couldn’t afford the tickets. I offered to pay for it to one of them. But they gracefully declined and thanked for the gesture. Also l went to a concert and I invited a friend he said no because money issues… but I already had 2 tickets, so he went with me. We had an awesome time. How do you guys handle these situations? Later next month I’m going to travel with a friend. He’s very excited, his first time in that country I’ve been many times, I know that he’s short on money I bought the plane tickets and told him they costed less than what I actually paid. I’m in a fortunate position that those expenses are irrelevant… But I understand their position too , I don’t want new friends with more money. I like my current friends, Ive known them for years I know some of them can afford more expensive things, but they are the minority.. and I want to hang out with all of them ☹️

My preference Masseuse - clothed Masseur - naked and with a hardon 😈

Frozen, not expired. There’s a big difference.

San Diego area

I’m getting fed up with massages / masseurs. It’s been a while since I’ve hired someone really good. Good for me is a trained masseur with sensual or erotic elements. Most of the new guys I hire are guys without experience that want to make good money without even putting too much effort. And then some members of this forum rave about them based only on the sensual / erotic elements. Some of the really good ones around my area moved or stopped offering massage services. At the moment I’ve no desire to keep trying / wasting money on new guys that don’t have a clue of what they are doing. I think I’ll take a break for a few months and see how things go. Meanwhile I’ll just hire the 2-3 masseurs that are my regulars. But no new ones. I’ll save some money and use it on other experiences. Maybe a cruise? More concerts, theater, fine dining…. Etc. Does anyone else feel the same? I started hiring back in late 2017 I think.

He lost me at $200 for 60 min stating price.

Here’s the Sean Cody link https://www.waybig.com/blog/2018/11/04/sean-cody-eddie-iii/

Any updates on this guy? He’s now in Carlsbad area.

Yeah. I also think about giving my kidneys a break. 🙂

I see. Mmh. I usually travel internationally to visit friends or family. I wonder if they’ll be willing to pay extra for the shipping. I’ll ask.

Thanks. I’ve Kaiser not sure how flexible they are in these type of situations

Due to monkey pox vaccine, I’m not planning to have sex / massages in at least 6 weeks. Should I stop prep and resume later? I was planning to not tell my doctor, so I can save a bottle of prep for when I travel for a long period of time or as a back up. Is this a good idea?

Just wondering how many of you guys are in LTRs and your partner knows that you enjoy sensual massages? Do you have clear boundaries on what’s allowed? Is your relationship open or only sensual massages are allowed? I met a guy and maybe (big maybe) it could become something more serious. So I just want to get a feeling on how other couples handle massages while in a relationship… assuming is a “monogamous” one… or you stop getting massages all together? I know each relationship is different and everyone could set their own rules… I just want to hear other experiences. Thanks.

🫢 $250 for 60 min. - No thanks, I’ll pass

To cross reference https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/84990-411-on-californian2013-in-san-diego/#comment-959544 https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/96577-nico-in-sdla-411/#comment-1269270 https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/111276-411-massage-by-nico-in-san-diego/#comment-1432279 https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/126332-nick-in-laguna/#comment-2025558

Sorry to hear that. I guess, baby oil, no technique, weak strokes, no connection and you finish yourself.

My 1st dose is already scheduled for this coming Monday. thanks for the link.

Thanks for the info.

Useful info. Thanks!!

Yeah. I should have gone to the county clinic that specializes on stds. But they take at least a week before they give you an appointment. Still I’ll try to go next week for my regular std tests and I’ll ask for mpox vaccines. They are more likely to have some.