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Yes. Me too. I guess by hiring lots of masseurs I’ve a good idea of what feels good. I also ask for feedback... what movements they enjoyed the most, what was the most sensual stretch or stroke, etc.

Yeah. Bed wouldn’t work for me. Is difficult to massage on a bed. Harder to apply pressure and reach some areas and do some stretching techniques. And as I've mentioned before, I do not offer sex from the get go, I just offer a relaxing massage. Is also a safeguard in case I'm not into the guy, we just leave it as a therapeutic massage or maybe lightly sensual with HE (only happened once). I think it's easier for guys to trust me when I send a pic of my set up, the massage table etc. And also they are more willing to travel to my location, since traveling with a table is a hassle and they are getting the massage for free.

I think some of the guys I see are out of my league. But once they are on my massage table and experience a sensual massage all bets are off. Top only guys (on their Grindr profile) become bottoms after rimming them and massaging their anus... guys that they said no sex before meeting at the end I end up fucking them because they just ask for it (I will never pressure anyone to go beyond what their comfort level) I think that they are so aroused that they just go with what feels good and creates pleasure for them. if you have a massage table you should try this I’m really happy with the outcome so far.

Swimmers build young mexican guy. Wow. Just met another guy. Mexican. 23 years old. Swimmers build. Smooth body, except legs. I think it was his first massage ever. He didn’t know where to put his arms on the massage table. Didn’t know what level of “undress” it was needed and what type of massage I was going to give. I told him I was an amateur masseur without formal training. And to undress to the level he get comfortable. So he left his underwear on. I have to say that I started chatting with this guy today. And in under 2 hours he was on my table. Usually is not this fast or easy. It helps that I was able to take a long lunch break at work to meet him. He’s pretty busy with 2 jobs. So everything aligned. And I was happy I met him. I started the massage, usual... back, neck, arms, hands... and at one point he said... "you can go under my underwear if you'd like..." that was my "green light" to go sensual. But I said.. good, but let's massage one body part at a time, we'll get there... and we did. I removed his underwear and it was the most beautiful ass I've seen. So smooth, soft, not muscular, but not flabby either. It was just perfect. When I started massaging his glutes I was in heaven. I got a hard on and started precumming a lot. I was still wearing shorts and tshirt. At one point, by the way he was moving his hand, I realized he wanted to reach my dick... so I let him and positioned myself so he could have free access. I let him grope my dick...and after a few minutes, I removed my shorts. And he started jacking me off. I continued with the massage while he was jacking me off.... I started touching his asshole "by accident" making it feel like it was part of the massage. I knew he was enjoying it. Also, I knew he was a bottom because of his grindr profile, so I assumed he would enjoy me playing with his ass. After massaging the glutes and inner tights he was precumming a lot. I knew by casually brushing his dick and the stain on the sheet. It as hot. Then I positioned myself on top of him to massage this back. By this time I was naked. And my dick pressing against his ass. By the way he was moving I could tell he wanted me to fuck him.... but I didn’t at this point... not yet. I wanted to arouse him even more. So I continue with the massage and asked him to turn over... I massaged his pecs, abs and legs... playing with his nipples and brushing his dick every now and then. By the way he is BIG!!! And hard. He was grabbing my dick all this time... suddenly he sat down and started kissing me... wow. I enjoyed that very much. We fooled around (oral, etc) and end up fucking him on the table. He was very flexible. He came while I was inside him. I liked that a lot. Then I jacked off and came on his abs. It was good. He said he enjoyed it very much. Hope he becomes a regular. Maybe next time I could rim him ;-)

How can a 'masseur' fall asleep while doing a massage? Maybe drunk? On drugs? What do you think?

Someone likes traveling... Travel schedule Feb. 20 - 23: New York, NY Feb. 24 - 24: Nashville, TN Feb. 25 - 25: Atlanta, GA Feb. 26 - 26: Birmingham, AL Feb. 27 - 27: Memphis, TN Feb. 28 - 28: St Louis, MO Feb. 29 - 29: Louisville, KY March 1 - 1: Indianapolis, IN March 2 - 2: Chicago, IL March 3 - 3: Milwaukee, WI March 4 - 4: Madison, WI March 5 - 7: Minneapolis, MN March 8 - 8: Des Moines, IA March 9 - 9: Cedar Rapids, IA March 10 - 10: Chicago, IL March 11 - 11: Detroit, MI March 12 - 12: Cincinnati, OH March 13 - 13: Columbus, OH March 14 - 14: Cleveland, OH March 15 - 15: Pittsburgh, PA March 16 - 17: Washington, DC March 18 - 18: Philadelphia, PA March 19 - 19: Allentown, PA March 20 - 20: Newark, NJ March 21 - 21: New Haven, CT March 22 - 22: Springfield, MA March 23 - 23: Boston, MA March 24 - 24: Providence, RI March 25 - 25: Hartford, CT March 26 - 26: New York, NY March 27 - 27: Philadelphia, PA March 28 - 28: Baltimore, MD March 29 - 29: Richmond, VA March 30 - 30: Virginia Beach, VA March 31 - 31: Raleigh, NC April 1 - 1: Charlotte, NC April 2 - 2: Charleston, SC April 3 - 3: Jacksonville, FL April 4 - 4: Orlando, FL April 5 - 5: Tampa, FL April 6 - 6: Tallahassee, FL April 7 - 7: Atlanta, GA April 8 - 8: Birmingham, AL April 9 - 9: Nashville, TN Normally based in: Los Angeles, CA

If you text him asking for rates, he'll request you to call him instead.

Easy going and kind. Could be chatty, but also quiet. Massage strokes were quick and rushed, like he had to finish fast. I usually enjoy slower movements, and let the energy flow. He did not short on time, it was just his style. In my case, he tried to upsell, but declined... and still got ALL the extras. Enjoys cuddling and kissing. If you are looking for a perfect body with six pack and muscles, he's not your guy. But I'd take a kind, humble, easy going guy any day over a perfect, muscular arrogant guy.

Do you know his rates? It says "ASK"

Why do they do this... usually the more time you hire them, the price should go down? Would you recommend him for a 60 min or 90 min (as a masseur)? Is it worth it to pay escort rates to hire him for a 90 min massage ? Or better 1 hr as an escort?

Looks like he escorts too.

That’s the first thing I ask. this is a business transaction. I’m not trying to conquer the escort’s heart.

Any updates?

It was my second time booking a session with him. And as soon as he saw me (even before going inside the “therapy room”) he slapped my ass and grabbed my crotch. It felt weird to me. And not very professional. But he’s good at what he does. Not sure if he already moved to a new location but I don’t like the place where I’ve seen him. Bathroom is like far far away. Is a commercial building. Homeless outside. Other therapists nearby. I always try to book late on weekends so the place is empty. Can’t imaging going there and being really busy. I haven’t seen him again. Would I repeat? Yeah. I think so. But I found a really really good masseur off Grindr near my area with 90 min sessions for $100 and he’s provided full service to me (no upsell or anything) Not sure if he does that all the time.

He’s in San Diego. For almost 2 weeks. Ugh! No desire to hire him. Not even to find him on happn.

Any updates on this guy?

Best wishes. Good luck ? Report back.

You saved a lot of money by not meeting a maybe bipolar and impatient guy. Perhaps he didn’t take his medications that day. ??‍♂️

Ah, well. I always show my face. I send a pic showing it. Also I sent a pic shirtless. (I don't have a pic posted in my profile, and I have no info -just basic stats-, no age). I'd say I'm what the gay community calls an 'otter'. Lean, hairy. I'm not muscular or athletic. I don't have extra pounds either. Just regular build, I'd say. I'm in my early 40s, but usually they say I look younger (30s). I've facial hair. I haven't lost my head hair. I'm not like an "alpha" male, I'm just a regular "masculine" guy. I'm Hispanic (with an accent, been in the USA a few years). I never discuss sexual stuff in grindr or send nudes. not sure if that gives you a better idea. and that answers your question

San Diego.

Haha. I don’t talk about dick size at all. I don’t send nudes. No sex talk at all. i send a shirtless pic. if they ask dick size I only say avg. that’s it.

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I never mention anything sexual before we meet. Several ask if it’s a sexual massage and I don’t say no. I just reply is a full body relaxing massage. This has worked in my favor... if i’m not into the guy that much I just give a massage with a basic Happy ending. That’s it. It has only happened once. Usually I find them attractive. — I don’t get nude from the get go — All of them kept their underwear at the beginning — I start massaging their backs, arms, hands, head. — then when is time to massage the glutes I remove their underwear. All of them cooperate. So far no one has said no. — as I massage their glutes and inner thighs I casually brush their anus and balls and that’s a fail proof sign of what’s coming. They usually try to brush my dick with their hands. — then I remove my shorts and stay in underwear. I position myself so they can acceses my dick — then they openly grab my cock. —- I do the same and massage the anus. —- I lightly finger them —- as the masseur you can tell how they open their legs and push up the ass, like offering it to you. — there’s some sexual play. — but then I resume the massage... legs... calves... feet. —- i ask them to turn around ... continue the massage —- by this time we are both nude. —- sometimes I lay on top of them pressing them with my body. Several enjoy this. Feeling all my body on top of them. —- sometimes is just he, sometimes oral, or 69, ror anal... it all depends. But so far no one has refused my advances. I let it all unfold naturally and usually they are the ones that make the first move in an open way. I just go with the flow. If someone wants to keep their underwear that’s would be ok with me too. I find giving massages enjoyable and relaxing. I would never pressure someone into more if they don’t give any clues. But I advertise in Grindr. So i really don’t think they want just therapeutic ? we all want a little bit more. ?

Even here around my area there are other guys doing it for free and for a fee. I don’t have it in my profile. I just do it via private message after a few messages are exchanged.

Yeah. The bouncer guy is a fwb. Also the gym rat guy. He comes over. We drink a few beers and then massage time! Do you have any memorable stories to share? A guy asked me if I had toys. I have never used toys during a massage. I think he meant dildos and fleshlight. But I have my mouth and dick. Better than plastic toys. Hehe. I think he didn’t want to be too direct. ??‍♂️