Damnnn...that sounds so hot with all your rules and such. Sounds amazing! I very much want to experience edging - I'd just need someone else to do it since I can't myself. =oP Hell, I'd probably take it to the extreme - I'd love to be tied up and edged on and off for hours until I have blue balls sometime just for the experience. (But I am interested in the harder core stuff like candle wax, floggers, nipple clamps, etc. in theory too - I just don't have a lot of experience with them, and I'm not talking about anything TOO hardcore or painful).
Hehe...my first boyfriend hit the headboard the first time we had sex too. (Of course we were both teenagers at the time, but still). So I can relate a bit. Cool story!
I think what got me so interested in milking and edging was this story that I read some time ago (probably saw it around the first time it was published):
I like pits too, though maybe not as much as some of you do (not a major, major fetish for me, but something I find appealing). More than that, I like light sweat/musk anywhere on a guy (not talking super heavy...but some is a definitie turn-on on a clean guy). I also must confess I like natural smell/taste over deoderant much better.