I mean I don't know what was said, but as a provider I will never go into detail over text with a new client. Also when potential clients start asing questions not relevant to the massage like age, hobbies, weight, etc, its an immediate block for me. Too many people want to chat and never book. Also, I am not risking my livelyhood. My best clients book if i seem like something they want, and experience the massage. You're also going to see a difference between a massuer and a straight up rent boy.