Cody Converse

This is such an awesome idea, thank you for this! @OP, I have had some clients whom I've trusted with my name buy my ticket for me. For the most part though, I have simply paid for the ticket myself, and asked that they add the cost onto the cash at the end.

Honestly, I could see a situation where like, someone hires for their developmentally-delayed brother or something, if he's otherwise unable to experience human contact and intimacy. Having experience working with people with intellectual and developmental disabilities, it would have to depend on the person and the severity of their impairment, and that's assuming they're even capable of acknowledging/understanding our roles in this interaction. There's also an extremely murky area of consent in those with intellectual disabilities, and the threat of harm to the provider if the client is unable to behave appropriately.

Honestly, I could see a situation where like, someone hires for their developmentally-delayed brother or something, if he's otherwise unable to experience human contact and intimacy. Having experience working with people with intellectual and developmental disabilities, it would have to depend on the person and the severity of their impairment, and that's assuming they're even capable of acknowledging/understanding our roles in this interaction. There's also an extremely murky area of consent in those with intellectual disabilities, and the threat of harm to the provider if the client is unable to behave appropriately.

Like @FTM Zachary Prince said, all that changes is the physical accommodations you have to take. I've had a client in a wheelchair and tracheostomy before. Treat me with respect and I'll treat you with kindness no matter what you look like.

Like @FTM Zachary Prince said, all that changes is the physical accommodations you have to take. I've had a client in a wheelchair and tracheostomy before. Treat me with respect and I'll treat you with kindness no matter what you look like.

Go to your doctor. Being bedridden for three days is not normal and should be investigated by a medical professional.

Rehoboth is nice, but definitely more geared towards nuclear families than gay men these days. Double L is a pretty fun leather bar, the other gay bars in town are pretty run-of-the-mill beach town bars. Poole Beach (or Poodle Beach depending on who you ask) is decent, absolutely swarming with instagays on holiday weekends tho.

Uh, I think we're saying the same thing. They're asking because they have a specific interest they can't otherwise satisfy, so they ask to make sure they'll be okay. As someone who has a WIDE variety of sexual interests, it's best if everyone is on the same page. It's no fun to get your hopes up for a specific scene and find out your partner has no interest. I think you're making a bigger deal out of this than it needs to be.

This! "What are your limits," etc. usually indicates that the client is looking for something more than vanilla, and more often than not means they have a specific interest that they want to explore. For a lot of clients, especially ones with niche interests, hiring is one of the only ways they can explore their kinks (whatever that may be) and they want to make sure they're going to actually be able to engage in the type of play they're looking for. If anything, asking the question indicates more respect for the provider as a person, not less. Considering how obscure (or even risky) some fetishes can get, it's always best that everyone is on the same page.

It should definitely be asked for and agreed upon beforehand. I know this is not your question, but taking pictures of a provider without explicit consent is wrong, end of discussion. I did have a client "ambush" me with a desire to film our encounter. I was new and hesitantly agreed to it (he had flown me across the country for the encounter), but I now regret it. I went back through our correspondence and it was never mentioned. I have a no-photo policy now, because I also have tattoos that I've edited out of my pictures to remove identifiable features.

It's fake. A perforated esophagus would have landed this kid in the ICU and require surgical intervention. He'd be on a LOT more than just a nasal cannula.

I actually just had my first "exclusively feet" encounter a few weeks ago during a trip to DC. Had a client who spent the entire hour (and then some) playing with, licking, sucking, massaging, and grazing my feet with his teeth. No sex, not even any kissing. It was unexpected (he hadn't even mentioned a foot fetish prior to meeting), but definitely a good experience. I loved seeing how happy he was completely losing himself in the experience-- definitely one of the most satisfying encounters I've had. Oof, this one is always conflicting. I love seeing my top enjoying himself while I'm in that position, but my feet are pretty ticklish and I'm always afraid I'm going to kick him in the face

Or more reason to do your research and find reputable artists/parlors.

Love Dirty Heads! Saw them a bit ago in Philadelphia, they put on a great show. If you like their sound, Rebelution is a similar band that I love even more.

Yeah, it's unfortunate, but I do work full time with odd hours at my "real" job and frequently travel. I use the "Unavailable" feature during extended periods of time where I literally cannot meet anyone. I like to keep my personal life, work life, and "work life" completely separate Appreciate the kind words, everyone