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I would privately give him constructive but honest feedback . If you cannot wrote a genuine positive public review, then I would skip it.

I would privately give him constructive but honest feedback . If you cannot wrote a genuine positive public review, then I would skip it.

I would privately give him constructive but honest feedback . If you cannot wrote a genuine positive public review, then I would skip it.

I would privately give him constructive but honest feedback . If you cannot wrote a genuine positive public review, then I would skip it.

I would privately give him constructive but honest feedback . If you cannot wrote a genuine positive public review, then I would skip it.

I would privately give him constructive but honest feedback . If you cannot wrote a genuine positive public review, then I would skip it.

I would privately give him constructive but honest feedback . If you cannot wrote a genuine positive public review, then I would skip it.

I’ve received such a note, a call actually. There are upstanding masseurs.

I’ve received such a note, a call actually. There are upstanding masseurs.

On another perspective,
 
Is this a realistic thread to have? Just because someone licked one person’s butt, is not a confirmation that they are going to lick YOUR butt.
 
May I kindly request that if anyone decides to hire any of the masseurs mentioned here, to do the following:
1.) Do not directly ask them to rim you
2.) Do not put your ass in their face
3.) Honestly take a good look at your own ass and ask yourself, “would I lick my ass?”
 
I’ll admit that I get a bit unnerved about the scenario where a socially retarded potential client will contact a masseur and demand a specific “extra”, because they confirmed that he did it to someone else.
 
Please approach these masseurs with class and respect if scheduling an appointment with them.

Yes. I saw him recently and he’s a nice guy and checks a lot of the boxes for a great massage experience. I send you a PM.

Agreed re Pasha as that’s been my experience. Good massage and then about 8 minutes sensual time at end. He has good touch and nice enough guy. However, if you are looking for sensual throughout then I think Aleks might be better. I went to Aleks last month and thought he was great.

Agreed re Pasha as that’s been my experience. Good massage and then about 8 minutes sensual time at end. He has good touch and nice enough guy. However, if you are looking for sensual throughout then I think Aleks might be better. I went to Aleks last month and thought he was great.

Agreed re Pasha as that’s been my experience. Good massage and then about 8 minutes sensual time at end. He has good touch and nice enough guy. However, if you are looking for sensual throughout then I think Aleks might be better. I went to Aleks last month and thought he was great.

+1 on Peter. Aleks right in HK is also a fav
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/12512/

If I wanted to get to edged by hand who would you recommend?
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/26994/

Yup. I only went once because it’s far for me, but Brad was great. I need to go back.

I wrote prior on this thread, and thought I would elaborate. I went to him about a month ago because his rates were really low and thought I’d give him a try. He was very welcoming and the set up was great. The start of the massage was very good but then about 1/2 way through came an upsell. This is a total deal killer for me. My approach is that I book a massage with a masseur at your stated price and don’t expect any extras. I’ll leave it to the masseur to take the lead on extras and will tip accordingly if that naturally happens. At any rate, I politely declined and said something like “I didn’t bring a lot of $” in order to quickly change the subject. He asked “how much did I bring.” I was really taken aback and again declined. I probably should have left then but I was a little rattled. He continued the massage which became extremely erotic. However, it was not erotic in a mutual enjoyable sense but rather in a sense of him using my body for his pleasure. While I can say that what happened between us was definitely consensual, it is was not a good exchange for me. It didn’t feel good, and like others, I left feeling not as good as I came.
So what do I think is going on with this masseur? I think he’s probably not in a great space emotionally and financially. We should have compassion for him. That said, he's in the wrong line of work and I suspect that the huge drop
In rates is because he’s not getting repeat business and needs to lure new people in. I personally wish the best for this masseur, but I would strongly suggest potential clients to stay away. Just my two cents....

I didn’t find him unpleasant but didn’t really enjoy my experience. I cannot put my finger on it but something was off. He was nice enough but there wasn’t really any chemistry (and I generally connect with most people).

I too think a lot of people take it this way, but I don’t think they necessarily should. YMMV can very well be about how the masseur is feeling at the particular day: (1) more or less sexual active at the time; (2) multiple clients in the same day; (3) current relationship status and current agreement with partner. Sure, personal chemistry and attraction is part of this but there are often variables completely unrelated to the client.
 
What I have found is that if you are respectful to the masseur and treat him well (let him lead with extras and mutual touch— please no groping), your mileage will generally go a very long way.

I prefer short guys

I too think a lot of people take it this way, but I don’t think they necessarily should. YMMV can very well be about how the masseur is feeling at the particular day: (1) more or less sexual active at the time; (2) multiple clients in the same day; (3) current relationship status and current agreement with partner. Sure, personal chemistry and attraction is part of this but there are often variables completely unrelated to the client.
 
What I have found is that if you are respectful to the masseur and treat him well (let him lead with extras and mutual touch— please no groping), your mileage will generally go a very long way.

Hornytwells, comments that appear to be baseless attacks on masseurs should be condemned, but I don't think you are saying that any of the negative comments about Ryan are baseless.
 
What I am suggesting is that there is a difference between posting positive experiences about masseurs and "defending" them. What suggests an "agenda," to use your word, is going beyond adding one's positive experience to the discussion by moving onto language which seems to challenge or excuse other, less positive experiences. It is enough, for example, for you to say that he has usually been reliable in his appointments with you. You go beyond that, however, when you write that you "never...heard of him doing such a thing" as being unreliable. You, in fact, heard it from this very thread! Likewise, posting your own attitude towards Ryan's level of talkitiveness is appropriate, but it's bewildering to me why you would feel the need to tell us that "many people I know like to relax in a massage and not converse." We can speak for ourselves, and the posters in this thread have. The same goes for this comment of yours: "I have read several posts from people on here who hate chatty masseurs and complain that they talk too much." Again, we don't need you to tell us what others think. We can read. Your engaging in this kind of rhetoric is what makes your post seem like advocacy.
 
I'm glad you have had good experiences with Ryan, but good masseurs don't need defenders. Their work and positive comments posted about them on this site are sufficient.

I too think a lot of people take it this way, but I don’t think they necessarily should. YMMV can very well be about how the masseur is feeling at the particular day: (1) more or less sexual active at the time; (2) multiple clients in the same day; (3) current relationship status and current agreement with partner. Sure, personal chemistry and attraction is part of this but there are often variables completely unrelated to the client.
 
What I have found is that if you are respectful to the masseur and treat him well (let him lead with extras and mutual touch— please no groping), your mileage will generally go a very long way.

I too think a lot of people take it this way, but I don’t think they necessarily should. YMMV can very well be about how the masseur is feeling at the particular day: (1) more or less sexual active at the time; (2) multiple clients in the same day; (3) current relationship status and current agreement with partner. Sure, personal chemistry and attraction is part of this but there are often variables completely unrelated to the client.
 
What I have found is that if you are respectful to the masseur and treat him well (let him lead with extras and mutual touch— please no groping), your mileage will generally go a very long way.