Jim_n_NYC

This is exactly what I was thinking.

Wasn't sure whether or not to contribute to this, but, why not... I've been getting massages for about 2 years and two of them stand out as the extremes of this conversation. 1) Pretty beefy guy who is popular here in the forums who gave a very good massage on a table (about a year ago). He got nude (at some point during the massage, I like when they surprise like that), but when it came time for the HE, he did it very mechanically and when I glanced at him, he was staring up and out in space while it happened. No kissing. 2) My last massage was with another very popular guy here in the forums and it had been said that he will go pretty far with guys he likes. Well, did he! However, for me, he turned out to not be my type...though good looking, just 'meh' in a general sort of way. However, about 1/2 way thru the massage (which was very good, btw, and I wish he had stuck to that), I guess he got so excited that it turned into more of an escort session and I think he would have fucked me (er, no, no, no, no, no) if I had let him. He ended up getting off, but I didn't. The session itself went way past the hour scheduled. Boat loads of kissing. I have not run into someone who is completely non-sexual yet. I don't go into sessions thinking it HAS to happen, but if the guy is hot, I sure don't mind if the extras happen.

Yes, he's not new.

I agree with everything you said, but what threw me off was 2 guys contacted me who I never even looked at their profiles. I replied to the first and said something like "I just signed up and am just looking around, thanks." but the second I never left anything. I eventually deleted their messages, too. I'm not shaken up by this, I just find it mildly annoying, I guess and was wondering how you guys handle it.

Yea, I realize that I can change it so they don't see me, but I'd like the ones I DO like that I view to see that I looked, lol.

LOL, Ok. I was trying to be polite/thoughtful by responding to contact, esp from guys I looked at until I started getting unsolicited contact. Thanks for the reply.

I decided to join rent.men for the month just to check it out and posted a pic and short video there (no face). Since then, I've gotten contacted by a few 'scorts who I didn't even visit on the site and a couple were quite obnoxious. One said "When are you coming over so I can fuck you?" I guess some guys fall for this kind of stuff, but it's a huge turn-off for me. Is this normal? Initially, I was replying to contacts I was getting, but I stopped from guys like that. I'm not super worried about it, just curios and wondering what you more experienced guys think. I'm looking for my first (and maybe only) escort experience, so hopefully the site will help me line that up.

Yikes!

He saw me check out his ad and messaged me. I hate that they can do that. But, anyway, Agachado, if you do see him, please tell!

Well, that part, yea. But I hate to say this, but in that pic (the b&w one) he looks a lot like Bill de Blasio to me

Well, if I clicked on the pic to see the whole thing, duh. I was going to see I didn't see a with his crotch, lol.

Where do you get that from?

Well, I said it more from a baser aspect...I'm cheap! LOL.

Well, I said it more from a baser aspect...I'm cheap! LOL.

You are probably right about that...but I tend to tip $20 above the quoted rate.

Honestly, not to freak anyone out, but it's almost as big as Kim Kardashian's.

I went to CJ...nice guy, but I personally wouldn't repeat. I can see why guys like him tho, he is sweet. He really liked me for some reason

I went to CJ...nice guy, but I personally wouldn't repeat. I can see why guys like him tho, he is sweet. He really liked me for some reason

Pfft, then he needs to have a "just starting the business" sale for the first 5 customers.

Pfft, then he needs to have a "just starting the business" sale for the first 5 customers.

Wow, that's a bit rich for my blood. I'd have to settle for a massage then.

Wow, that's a bit rich for my blood. I'd have to settle for a massage then.

Well, wilton77 said the shorts stayed on during the massage. If the rentmen ad is him, it makes sense he won't want to give away at a cheap massage rate what he can sell at a higher escort rate.

Well, wilton77 said the shorts stayed on during the massage. If the rentmen ad is him, it makes sense he won't want to give away at a cheap massage rate what he can sell at a higher escort rate.

LOL, if I dildo is involved, is it really a massage anymore?