Kinected

There's one provider I use who's $160/90 mins who is worth it. However he's set the bench high where I'm skeptical for guys charging that much for 60 mins. All the recent events have really done for me is to not try new people often. I'd rather have 1 awesome experience at a higher price than two decent ones at the same price. So essentially I use one guy for an unique massage and awesome fun time and another for deep tissue spa quality therapeutic. I just can't justify $100+/hr when I can just go to massage envy when really , the massage is the primary thing I want with extras on the side.

So the next question... is this only for Massuerfinder or is this also on Massagefinder and if not, why?

Apparently there are ways around the sleeping contact numbers.... https://www.massagefinder.com/massage-therapists/32857/ So I am going to guess the guys can do this as well.

He's on there, jackd, A4A, IG and Tumblr. He's got headless faceless videos on Tumblr. But the ones I remember looked more like guys worshiping him.

This. It's pretty easy to in some cities to simply hook up with someone for free. I'm highly likely not going to get someone to just do a massage and maybe something more for free. So I definitely want good massage skills at the 100+/hr range. As mentioned above I can go to a massage chain or one of independent spots for a strictly business massage for 90 mins and not break $100.00 in the Atlanta market. If a guy has lackluster skills in the massage department, IDC what extras he has or how attracted I am to him, I'm likely not going to repeat. If the massage is on point and he's hot, we have chemistry, and/or there's some mutual extras that will definitely get me to go back. I feel that the guys charging 160/HR are likely doing a lot more than massage and that's fine but not what I'm looking for. Clearly they are charging that much because they have people who are paying it so I'm not mad at that at all. But at 160/hr and all I'd get is a simple rub down and maybe a HE after upgrading, that's quite alright. We have a lot of tempting visitors here but I'm leary on some of them when they are charging so much more than the locals. At least charge one rate on MF/MM4M So I know it's massage rates and a different one on RMEN So that I know that it's probably the escort rate. Making the rates the same across all these platforms yields too much ambiguity. I have found in my area 2 guys who charge 160 for 90 mins and the massages are great and have extras. They both have very different styles from each other. Then if I'm more budget conscious, I have 2 that are really good at therapeutic and cost 100/90min or less. One has HE but the other doesn't but skills are awesome. These are acceptable rates and competitive with the commercial places and I like that they are getting all the money paid to them. While the last two mentioned guys are not muscled pretty boys, they do a spa quality work.

[uSER=17316]@Elendil524[/uSER] that's my experience. I was a lurker. Then signed up for an account. Lurked some more and only recently stared to reply more. You are spot on about YMMV. I have had better experiences with some people than others and vice versa. Anything extra is extra and may not even occur with the same person successive times. Pretty much at this point I just have no expectations when approaching new people and just ask questions up front and make sure that if it's something they would rather talk about in person than via text, that's fine. I want a good massage first and anything beyond that is icing.

I think some words are red flagged. I noticed one of my reviews of a provider were removed. I went back to find the draft I typed, shout out to Evernote, and everything was on the level, but I typed the phrase "positions his body " and I guess that was enough to get the entire thing erased. I didn't even write it to allude to anything. Seeing people write reviews with "ample assets" "tip top notch" or "hands made for this type of job" definitely steer people into thinking about the direction things could be going. My review was tame in comparison. I think they should have provided a warning to their paying customers that changes were coming. Not being transparent about it looks shady. We understand why there's changes but the way they are going about it is wrong. TBH They probably were not even prepared or were paying attention beforehand. Once CL made their announcement, MF and M4M seem more like they made reactionary responses instead of prepared ones.

On the mobile version of the site when he shows up up in the list of providers.

His profile now says unavailable so I'm wondering if he's booked for the rest of his time here.

Those workout shoes tho.

They have also taken down the introduction messages. Basically it is: these guys do massages in this area. Here's their photo and number, if you want it. I like having some idea of what they are going to charge. Some people I'm not spending 150/hr on my budget. Especially when they are only charging that much because of their muscles and looks when the massage skills are lacking.

Are they requiring the masseurs to use an actual face pic as their main photo because there are A LOT of faces being shown that were not before?

Well, at least this has some masseurs posting more recent photos. Silver plated lining I guess? lol I wonder what affect this will have on pricing and the guys who travel a lot. I have some guys I would definitely call again but I'd be less likely to try a visitor or any new guys in the area now. For me, I really want a legitimate massage more than anything extra. If that happens, great. I have had massages that have hit the 120 range and there wasn't anything happy about it and the massage wasn't that great either. Meanwhile, they have glowing and raving reviews. At that price point, I feel like I should be happy and not indigo when I leave. Those are the one and done providers for me. On the flip, I've had 140-160 ranged and everything went well, awesome massage but the ending felt disengaged. I definitely don't want to feel like it's a chore for them if they are trying to make things happy. I have even dropped less 80 and the massage was so so but I definitely wasn't indigo at the end. That is acceptable as far as pricing goes but I still don't want to leave still having knots in my back or stiff glutes. Oh well, going forward I have 4 guys I know I can call that fit the balance at the price points I'm willing to pay and will just have my expectations set accordingly. I chose finding these providers through these particular sites because I know I can go to these guys and not feel embarrassed if I'm in a turgid state, I'm easily excited and sensitive, versus going to a commercial place and selecting a male masseur and he's straight and freaking out. I'm sure they are used to it but I'd rather everyone involved feel comfortable because if the situation was flipped, I definitely wouldn't prefer to be massaging females as a gay man.

Lol

Most black gay men don't want to be chased down by non black men to fulfill a BBC fantasy . Newsflash : not all of us black men are muscular and we all don't have massive peens . If you're only interested in a large member or a round butt, you're part of the problem. No one wants to be viewed as a piece of meat unless it's just a hookup.

I have contacted a few guys last minute who were "Available Now" and from my understanding, it meant they were pretty much ready for a client then or within the hour or so. I think it works like a Hot Donuts sign.

+1 for Tim. It's the most unique massage style I have experienced and very sensual. He recently moved to his new location. You can PM for deets.